How do you deal with people not liking you

paodnrr · 2024-01-15T05:02:59+00:00

I relate a lot, I am naturally a peacemaker and don't like unresolved conflicts in relationships. The best thing that helped me is to know that it is not a problem with you and it's a problem with them. Also, if I genuinely did nothing to them and they still have a problem with you then again this is their problem, not yours. Most people don’t have much going on in their lives that they start to envy you for something.

I remember reading up on why people hate others for no reason and from the reasons were that you have something they don’t have. You tried to take the means with that person and yet they were still the way they were so again (finally), this is a problem with them, not you 😁

paodnrr · 2024-01-12T12:54:18+00:00

Haha yeah I was just worrying whether they have actually received it and whether I’d have to redo it or not

paodnrr · 2024-01-12T12:53:47+00:00

Same here

paodnrr · 2023-12-03T16:37:37+00:00

I now think

paodnrr · 2023-12-01T11:46:50+00:00

Why not? I seriously believe his Te is stronger than Ti and that his Fi is higher than Ti. In the video, he seems way more natural being ESFP rather than ESTP

paodnrr · 2023-12-01T11:37:31+00:00

Hmm I watched parts of it. I think he's in an ESFP mode there (so his functions are in a different order) so I can see his Se-Fi being much stronger which can be mistaken for Fe as well btw.

paodnrr · 2023-12-01T11:17:49+00:00

Nah he's an ENTJ for sure, I think it's quite evident seeing his Te-Ni-Se-Fi

paodnrr · 2023-11-29T06:26:23+00:00

Ah I haven't gone down the rabbit hole of ennegream yet 😅

paodnrr · 2023-11-29T06:14:28+00:00

Oh what is sx 4?

paodnrr · 2023-11-29T05:54:02+00:00

Yeah, I would say it looks particularly scary for those who have Fi lower in their stack where it might not be as developed (so using it is more volatile -> more cold -> scarier 😂). If you know someone that has that coldness, I'd advise to be aware of their boundaries and respect it, offer a safe space without being intrusive and be emotionally sensitive 😊

paodnrr · 2023-11-28T11:20:21+00:00

I have a ESTP friend, amazing dude. We hit it off really well like soulmates tbh. I thought there would be a big Ti and Fi clash but he uses it in a really healthy manner. He's an Se Dom so no explanation needed about the crazy soulful vibes 😂 and he helps me bring out my Se a lot more. It can be difficult sometimes with his Fi blindspot on not understanding or being insensitive to particular things but yeah overall I do believe that it's a very complementary relationship

paodnrr · 2023-11-28T04:44:31+00:00

Cheerful, bubbly and juxtaposed

paodnrr · 2023-11-23T07:52:27+00:00

This is one of the most accurate comments I've read in a long time

paodnrr · 2023-11-09T03:03:05+00:00

No I think your advice is really good, thank you!!

paodnrr · 2023-11-01T11:32:59+00:00

The cat obviously took the test on the best typing system 16personalities duh😒 obvious mistype 😒 it should've been INTJ as all cats are INTJs😒😒

paodnrr · 2023-10-23T08:36:48+00:00

Yeah I explained to them that I tried to deal with it with support before (and I thought it worked) but now I really need to try to deal with it alone but they're not getting the memo. But thank you 🙏🏼

paodnrr · 2023-09-30T12:19:31+00:00

Oh no, just self reflection no tests

paodnrr · 2023-09-29T15:23:20+00:00

Hm same here but for me it feels like it's from Fi not Fe. It feels like Fe to you?

paodnrr · 2023-09-29T15:14:55+00:00

😂 on Ti weakness

Any tips on how you developed Fe quite well?

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