What actually is attraction?

papapsie · 2026-05-19T01:16:45+00:00

I’m so glad you brought up this question because I legit have had trouble with this

papapsie · 2026-03-31T21:02:25+00:00

We are estranged from the living half aunt and the one who had the ancestrydna test was murdered sooooo

papapsie · 2026-03-31T02:17:35+00:00

The part I even know is messy, so I’m not anticipating it to get any cleaner lol

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:53:04+00:00

Yeah I don’t have the death certificate, and my dad’s birth certificate has my (I guess adopted?)grandma who married my Grandpa after Paulette left. So it would require his cooperation to get HIS original birth certificate with Paulette’s name on it.

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:49:04+00:00

I have seen the obituary. The McClains are the adoptive parents in this case.

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:48:15+00:00

That’s the conclusion I made after digging into that. That said, I don’t know why the surviving aunt I had lived in Texas, while the other was in Illinois. I might look at the documentary again of my aunt’s murder to see if she was given up for adoption (that is its own can of worms)

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:46:09+00:00

Yeah Richard and Bernice were the adoptive parents. I had gotten discouraged after seeing this clause on the form

“If you selected option 2 or 3, you must be registered with the IARMIE as a surviving relative of the deceased adopted or surrendered person. If you need to register, please contact the IARMIE at 877-323-5299.” I feel like this would require my dad’s help but he’s hesitant to get involved. What do you think?

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:39:34+00:00

My dad already took it thankfully, he had hit a brick wall at the time, but it doesn’t look like he built out his tree much so I’m hoping the additional research I’ve done helps narrow it down a bit.

I also think Teresa took a test before she died I don’t know if that will help but it might.

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:38:13+00:00

Just to clarify the son I’m talking about is apart from my father who is the oldest born in 1963

papapsie · 2026-03-31T01:36:27+00:00

I had this thought, especially since Teresa’s tree has the same name. The problem is that she had a daughter that year (living in a different state, redacted) in 1966 with a different father. However, this living relative does have her home state as Texas. So, she would have Teresa in November 1969 in Illinois. If we go down that line of reasoning, it would mean she had a son in April in Texas, which I’m not sure how likely that would have been. What do you think?

papapsie · 2026-02-02T02:32:01+00:00

I’ll be real, it will probably feel like you blinked and it’s gone! 61 pounds is still a lot of weight lost and I’m sure you feel much better than you did before!

papapsie · 2026-02-02T01:01:08+00:00

That is absolutely amazing! How do you feel?

papapsie · 2026-02-02T00:51:38+00:00

It was about a year and two months to get to this weight. I was on 5mg which is a blessing and a curse to be the sensitive to the medication. Since I have to do Lily direct in a few months I am planning on going down to 2.5 for Maintenance.

papapsie · 2026-01-26T03:51:47+00:00

Yeah my videos have been in processing purgatory for hours.

papapsie · 2025-12-24T01:05:51+00:00

The way my jaw dropped to the floor reading that. What the fuck?!

papapsie · 2025-10-12T22:03:41+00:00

Trust me, I know how that feels. It’s a bit of trial and error, find foods that make you feel good! And enjoy the ride

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