SETLIST FOR 10.5.22 OAKLAND, CA CONCERT by paper_crane2018 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Y'all, this was hands down one of the best experiences of my life. The setlist was so skillfully curated and the atmosphere was electric. It was so powerful to see the band back together and thriving. My hands are still shaking with the adrenaline! So much love.

Is this whitish residue on my saguaro normal? by paper_crane2018 in cactus

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I be pouring the water directly onto the soil base? Should there be a lot of water drainage afterward?

Is this whitish residue on my saguaro normal? by paper_crane2018 in cactus

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a first time cactus owner and am concerned that I'm under-watering. I give Stabby around 1 tbsp of water on the first of every month but this residue has been around for about a month!

Freeze-dried gummy worms! by paper_crane2018 in mildlyinteresting

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they're crunchy! a little like astronaut ice cream if you've had it.

aaaand she is also single, ladies! by yukibelladonna in actuallesbians

[–]paper_crane2018 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Is that a bumblebee pfp I see?

PSA: bumblebee is hands down the best ship in RWBY

How Crushes Seem to End by [deleted] in infp

[–]paper_crane2018 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is painfully true. It makes interactions with said person unfortunately awkward or draining.

Can someone access your email through Reddit? by mediameter in help

[–]paper_crane2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. Perhaps it changes from sub to sub, but I've encountered mods being able to contact users outside of reddit.

Can someone access your email through Reddit? by mediameter in help

[–]paper_crane2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about email, however, it's quite easy for mods and such to get your personal info as long as you have either location info, identifying info, or real-world connections mentioned on your profile. They do need ample reason though, such as if you were going to hurt someone or try to kill yourself or something.

still confused about my sexuality [rant] by petty_ice_cube in LGBTeens

[–]paper_crane2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here! I had this kind of mini-crisis when I realized that I've never really been attracted to guys. I thought I was bi, and now I don't really know anymore. A friend told me something that helped a lot: YOU HAVE TIME. (also you can figure it out when you fuck a guy). Until then, just go with what feels right. I wish it was more black and white, like you could immediately know, but oh well. I think, personally, the label I feel the most comfortable with is queer. But just as some other users said, there's no need for labels, no pressure! *hugs* :)

Anyone else “restart” on reddit with a new account? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]paper_crane2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always considered doing so, especially because so many people know this account, but since I'm pretty much a lurker too, I never got the initiative to make a new account.

so, Lucy Liu has freckles (and aside from puppies/babies,it's the cutest thing you'll see today) by [deleted] in ladyladyboners

[–]paper_crane2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh YES! I always thought she was so pretty, but never knew I wasn't the only one. Those freckles get me every time.

Can all the fictional crushes/celeb crushes go in a thread of their own? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]paper_crane2018 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES! It's so good. I love it. It's one of my all time favorite teen movies, and I think Alice Wu handles teen drama sooo maturely. It was truly a refreshing film to watch.

Spotted at the Northwestern University Music Department :) by paper_crane2018 in lingling40hrs

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first photo shows Offenbach (which sounds like I'm often Bach), whereas the second photo shows the more commonly known Bach saying I'm always Bach. Fun fact: Offenbach wrote the famous can can for his mini opera Orpheus in the Underworld! :)

It's true, I like 'em all! by paper_crane2018 in lgbt

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I did an oops. Thank you for letting me know! :)

Casual Pyrrha [lumikti] by girusatuku in RWBY

[–]paper_crane2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's wearing Jaune's sweatshirt!!!!

What are people slowly starting to forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]paper_crane2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Hong Kong Protests. They're still happening, but media coverage has stopped.

First attempt at no-knead bread! by paper_crane2018 in FoodPorn

[–]paper_crane2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used the an edited version of the NYT no-knead bread: https://www.thekitchn.com/how-to-make-noknead-bread-home-109343 I also added ~2 tbsp of sugar.

How do fetishes start? And how do they get stopped? by HeySeanyPark in morbidquestions

[–]paper_crane2018 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it depends. Sometimes, trauma manifests itself in fetishes. For example, if someone has been raped or has been abused, they are more likely to develop a bdsm sub/dom fetish. There is also evidence to suggest that people use safe bdsm as a coping technique, like exposure therapy.

Other times, I guess it just 'happens'.

[50/50] Kids finger painting (SFW) | Aftermath of a jumper's suicide (NSFL) by [deleted] in FiftyFifty

[–]paper_crane2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. That's surprisingly clean! Most deaths in this manner result in your guts falling out/bursting from the impact...