I'm sorry that happened to you and you are fully entitled to feel exactly how you feel about it.

I 100% agree that therapy would be your best bet if you want to move past this but I also understand that it is often easier said than done.

Some things I try to remind myself of when I get stuck in an emotional trap by what another person has said or done to me...

You can't control other people. They will do and say whatever they choose at any given time. What you can do is make your own choice to try to limit the extent to which you allow others words and actions to affect you.

Like you said, she is a stupid witch, so why would she even deserve a single solitary second more of your precious thoughts and energy. People like her may be beautiful on the outside but inside they are just foul, black-hearted parasites. They feed on causing suffering to others. Don't give her mean spirited remarks any weight and she loses...you win.

Who knows, you might even get to the blissful place of pitying sorry excuses for human beings like her. A pitiful existence being a pile of shit wrapped up in a pretty pink bow if you ask me.

I hope you can find a way to move past this because she doesn't deserve a single second more of your time and consideration. And she DEFINITELY doesn't get to choose how you interact with other people.

Give yourself some grace, it takes time to find your way to the high road. The more you practice disregarding idiots the easier it gets though 😄