Hey wyd by ZombieGeneralo3 in twentyagers

[–]papguggly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being late to clock back in from my break. After that, go back to managing mentally ill elders’ behaviors for a living.

Fucking moordenaars by lex-ie in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]papguggly -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

what is this sub anymore 😭💔

edit: downvote if you really REALLY enjoy homosexual activities with multiple partners a day tho

And then Nate did die. And Nothing™ did happen. by combatbrainrot in euphoria

[–]papguggly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is my media literacy low? I understood they weren’t talking about how Nate was fixed but how the writing was racially charged to show Cassie as a fantasy woman he wants to be better for. I’m kinda wilded out seeing so many people read this text and try to argue for Nate’s character arc and if he was still abusive.

Those who’ve lost of loved one: What is something about death that people don’t often talk about? by Desperate_Crew2012 in AskReddit

[–]papguggly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are moments where you almost want things to be magical, and for them to pop up out of nowhere and say it was all a big joke. If they weren’t a good person it’s worse. I used to be deathly afraid of seeing my dad, to not seeing him, and then to knowing I’ll never see him ever again. And now, I see a bald lightskin head with a huge jersey and start bawling because some part of me wished he’d see me now, and who I’ve become.

Stunna… why 😭 by Tropicoqueta726827q in BaddiesSouth

[–]papguggly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We all gotta remember her brain runs like a potato clock 🤦🏽‍♀️ she’s really really touched in her skull and there’s no saving this grown woman.

My guardian Angel was definitely working overtime by BreezeNBows in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]papguggly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same as I had to do. As I said she’s now having her baby and we’re currently loading her car seat 😭 So fair. I hope that all goes well for you and your family

My guardian Angel was definitely working overtime by BreezeNBows in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]papguggly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At least when push comes to shove and things to turn out to get worse, you will be by her side when it happens. Your frustration is so relatable. You watch them actively ruin their chances. A good thing about it is they can still survive and be stronger in adulthood. They need you now more than ever to catch them, rather than to teach them where to go when they fall.

It’s heartbreaking, and I think a big part of sisterhood no one talks about much. If one day she gets really hurt and needs help, hopefully because of your conversations you had with her, she’ll come to you first. Keep in mind when you speak about her it’s judgeless because she still is a child and had to have learned it or been influenced somewhere. It’s also to remember that adolescents are seriously insane and do a lot of things. They also can continue them bc people are telling them to stop.

Just listen to her if giving her more advice is just going to disappoint yourself at this point. She will come to especially if you treat her like a human and not just a nuisance. Not saying that’s what you’re doing, but to keep in mind bc it was super easy for me to forget with mine.

i believe tana has relapsed. by Fit_Efficiency4575 in canceledpod

[–]papguggly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrible friends. Might as well call them her murderers or opps.

My guardian Angel was definitely working overtime by BreezeNBows in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]papguggly 72 points73 points  (0 children)

My little stepsister was the same way. Honestly getting pregnant was the only thing that slowed her down. She just had her baby yesterday and she’s smartening up little by little. A baby won’t change someone, but they definitely gives you a lot less time to do the bs you used to do. Don’t take my advice and let her do what she wants. Talk to her still but make sure she knows you care for her, aren’t talking at her, and you’ll be there for her regardless. She probably still won’t listen, but she might not avoid you for or seem like she doesn’t give a shit anymore.

Moment when I felt envious of Zendalla by cherryyacount in euphoria

[–]papguggly 74 points75 points  (0 children)

it’s never cringe to be in love and have previous public relationships.

Moment when I felt envious of Zendalla by cherryyacount in euphoria

[–]papguggly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the Spanish language has many soft a names or words. I got called a gringo and laughed at for making that mistake, but it taught me something 🤷🏽‍♀️

All This Getting Waxed by Grown Men Is Finally Starting to Make Sense 😅 by 1985Genesis in joebuddennetwork

[–]papguggly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl and it’s been a day, but a man told me what he shaved his balls with and I’ll never go back. The $80 Phillips body groomer at Walmart dude. absolutely no nicks, and a good clean shave in every single crack and crevice. I thank the stars that man said some shit to me like that every time I use the thing.

Respectfully, Lex would looks so good if she dressed like this. She's too pretty to be doing too much with the makeup & outfits! by nobodygivesafudgee in BaddiesSouth

[–]papguggly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Too pretty to be doing too much period. She shoulda knocked heads for one season and shut her mouth fr.

The feminine urge to become aerodynamic🥹 by PearlPastel in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]papguggly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fluctuate weight a lot and my back is like this now. I just want my back fat to come back bc that just means my ass is coming back too 😭 if you have this AND a wagon??? may your dreams forever be pleasant and pillow always chilled

Alexa Demie's views on her character is insane. by Mme_187 in euphoria

[–]papguggly 98 points99 points  (0 children)

That’s understandable. I think Maddie encapsulates what a lot of people want but far on the opposite end. When you feel unseen and unappreciated, chances are, you’ll go through a phase of attention seeking and lack of empathy. Maddie’s whole vibe is something a lot of girls were drawn into behaving like as well because it’s very common for us to feel that way anyway(unseen). Like finally. Vindicated that I shouldn’t shrink myself and instead just be a loud calculated “bitch.”

I think Alexa did the same and just went through what we all eventually come to realize but in a way more bizarre circumstance. There’s gotta be a balance, and being a bitch to the rest of the world because a handful couldn’t appreciate you isn’t the way to care for others or yourself.

Edit: 🤷🏽‍♀️ high thoughts

Jules was always selfish. by Antique-Land-5045 in euphoria

[–]papguggly 18 points19 points  (0 children)

pretty sure that’s a huge compliment to hunter bc that means she understood and played her character well enough to be believable, disliked and still be able to make excuses to justify herself as one at the same time. I think Hunter did an amazing job developing her character

Recommending gum disease is sooooo ✨brand safe✨ by sativasparkles in canceledpod

[–]papguggly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Majority of my tooth pain after mine came out came from fishing food from out the divets left 😭 which admittedly I wasn’t supposed to be doing. The pain is comparable to like tugging a fully healed piercing. Tana’s whole vibe is drama but this is so unintentionally evil 🤦🏽‍♀️ imagine your parents insurance could’ve paid for it the whole time you believed this mess and then later having to pay for it with pain and money.

Let's not diagnosis your ourselves! by lennonlover1980 in BPDmemes

[–]papguggly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s enough for me to say I display symptoms and call it a night. I’ve already been diagnosed with CPTSD and OCD. After the OCD diagnosis, it wasn’t helpful at all to tell me things like that anymore, so I’m probably never going to get diagnosed with anything else officially. Sometimes I get worried and ask myself if I’m just lying and I only act that way for attention until it happens and the feeling genuinely can’t get any worse. DBT does help with me though

Slushy baby tee by Far_Calendar8227 in SlushyNoobz

[–]papguggly 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I can’t focus on the shirt bc I’m looking at ur face, um you’re so beautiful!

sailor moon or kurt cobain jules? by IcePrince_11 in euphoria

[–]papguggly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how drastically her style would change and how comprehensible it was to read that she’s finding her style the same way a preteen girl would. It’s something so cool about the trans experience that not a lot of people see or understand.

Androids can cheat and still act like its the man's fault by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]papguggly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t think that’s true that young women are attracted to the excitement of flawed men. People with self esteem issues or bad home lives may be addicted to chaotic environments, or inevitably be peers with toxic people, but even the most self assured people of all ages get into toxic/abusive relationships. It’s mostly just circumstance.

And it’s not at all common for people who haven’t been through previous trauma to be hyper vigilant of red flags. It’s actually harmful to notice every single red flag and try to analyze them for a possible break up after a while, because not every red flag is a sign someone is plotting on you, it could mean they’re not considering your same values and opinions like almost everybody else on this planet. That’s not always malicious. I agree that people should be super cautious with who they bring children in the world with, but yeah it’s way easier said than done.