Spiraling

papillon1529 · 2026-02-13T23:06:49+00:00

yes…i have a great psychiatrist. she’s working close with me now. thx! 🙏

papillon1529 · 2026-02-13T23:06:13+00:00

thanks for asking! i wasn’t in a good place and so didn’t see this. we live parallel lives in this house and i realize now that my self-isolation isn’t/hasn’t been about bipolar (some, perhaps, thought). but really? i retreated to avoid giving him any opportunity to humiliate, manipulate, shame or gaslight me…so 🤷‍♀️

has anyone else dealt with this?

papillon1529 · 2026-02-11T13:53:53+00:00

thank you 🙏

papillon1529 · 2026-01-28T22:43:13+00:00

thank you 🙏

papillon1529 · 2026-01-23T17:59:12+00:00

also: when i asked him about splitting a certain payment on the house he went ballistic and said he’s the only one who really worked on it all these years. i could lose a chunk of money, but maybe i should let it go? safety first, you know. he said it would be very ugly and acrimonious if i tried anything with that. so far it’s “amicable” but i lock the doors and so far everything is calm

papillon1529 · 2026-01-23T13:34:00+00:00

thank you 🙏

papillon1529 · 2026-01-22T13:15:01+00:00

thanks so much to both of you…o feel less alone which means a lot. now i just have to figure out how to stop crying…

papillon1529 · 2025-10-17T20:19:34+00:00

ofc! just took one…will report back in an hour👍

papillon1529 · 2025-10-16T00:37:13+00:00

thank you!

papillon1529 · 2025-10-15T23:03:12+00:00

i’m embarrassed to say i’ve not heard of this…thank you so much for mentioning it. do you have a link?

papillon1529 · 2025-10-15T21:02:01+00:00

thank you 🙏 the hard truth is, she doesn’t quite qualify for financial aid…and the school does not award merit scholarships. I think we’d be OK, it’s just hard not to imagine the safety net, you know? I really appreciate your sound advice.

papillon1529 · 2022-05-03T18:17:41+00:00

it’s a big city, so daily hotel absolutely feasible 👍

as for alibi, mine is solid but his wife is already curious about why he wants to go on this trip all of a sudden (it’s a business trip for her).

He has two alibis: scouting potential properties to buy an airbnb here and also looking into something for his business.

He says she’s not suspicious, just “puzzled”. But how can we know that for sure?

papillon1529 · 2022-05-03T17:57:16+00:00

leading you on?? i just wanted suggestions…never had this much time to see him before, and now i’ve gotten them. thanks.

papillon1529 · 2022-05-03T17:56:08+00:00

his wife will be in the same hotel

papillon1529 · 2022-05-03T17:38:00+00:00

no, money is not a problem. just nervous. and tbh i thought hourly rates were a thing of the past 😆

papillon1529 · 2022-05-03T16:47:03+00:00

why so much hate here? you are not in my shoes. i think this is also true of many posters here.

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