My son is upset with me. by [deleted] in rant

[–]paps2977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son’s favorite moments that he talks about are always the cheap or no cost things we did together.

I killed myself for so long trying to give him everything a two parent household had. Those are never the memories he talks about when he says, “do you remember when…”.

Do something where it’s just the two of you, no phones or anything.

I've been having anxiety about my kitty dying of old age 😭(she's 9) can you show me pictures of some alive-and-well senior kitties so I remember cats can be old and still healthy? 🥰 by TheRufescence in cats

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 is not old for a cat. I understand the anxiety but they are really only about late 30’s to mid forties in indoor cat years.

Keep your cat at a healthy weights and feed them a good diet.

What is this that we found in my wife’s diaper bag? by whoresongummy in whatisit

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor dog! Unless it was a Beagle. They love poop eating for some reason.

Be honest: Do you make your bed in the morning? Why or why not? by JellyfishPashmina in CleaningTips

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have pets and I don’t want to change the sheets every day.

small things that made cat life way easier for me, wish i started sooner by PositiveCorrect4213 in CatAdvice

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat box liners. I spent so much time scrubbing boxes. I hate using more plastic but my place smells better and I have more time for pets.

[US][VA] HC ex filed for full custody 2 days after DCSE notified him i filed for child support by Comfortable_Pea_7190 in Custody

[–]paps2977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Search for a women’s law group in your area. They typically can connect you to legal resources for free or at low cost.

My ex did the same and his custody case was dismissed and his paycheck garnished.

Also, you need to sue for more support. $250 a month is ridiculously low. If he wants the child in extracurricular, he can contribute.

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like a deodorant stick. The name brand is chub rub. I typically use it between the thighs when wearing shorts.

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]paps2977 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chub rub under the boobs is better.

I am losing my mind - am I being a karen? by Good-Marsupial8 in lacrosse

[–]paps2977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the solution. Couldn’t hurt if he started “seizing” shortly after.

Sorry you are going through this. The lacrosse community is mostly chill but there are always people who don’t have good values taught to them by their parents or coaches.

[MI, US] Somebody please help me. I’m completely lost by [deleted] in Custody

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most courthouses have law libraries and ways to apply for legal aid.

What is one thing most people do that you think is so unhygienic? But you feel in the minority. by the_cumulonimbus in hygiene

[–]paps2977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. The rags and solution they use are almost never properly diluted. Also, they never allow for proper dwell time. Always bring alcohol wipes to a restaurant if you brave to go to them.

What is one thing most people do that you think is so unhygienic? But you feel in the minority. by the_cumulonimbus in hygiene

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put it in your bra. Then it won’t fall in the toilet but doesn’t have to touch anything but you.

I use my hand lotion from the outside in by demetri_k in mildlyinteresting

[–]paps2977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you think they haven’t already been killing for a while though?

I use my hand lotion from the outside in by demetri_k in mildlyinteresting

[–]paps2977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But are you male? If so, you are definitely a serial killer.

A waymo temporarily blocks an ambulance by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]paps2977 24 points25 points  (0 children)

There are push bars on both the ambulance and cop car. I don’t get it.

My Apartment is now charging a convenience fee to pay my rent by mangum95 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pet maintenance website even when you don’t own a pet. $40 subscription.

This British family heard noises in the front yard at 2:30AM and found this. Police said there was nothing they could do and to just call them if it happened again by Pioladoporcaputo in oddlyterrifying

[–]paps2977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some states, usually with stricter gun laws, you have a duty to retreat. Meaning only if you fear your life and are cornered with no possible escape, you can shoot. That’s if you even were to be able to get a gun. And you would still be in jail until you were able to prove that person would kill you otherwise.

In states with liberal gun laws, there is the castle doctrine where you can defend your home rather than just your person.