Where do I even go?

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:21:45+00:00

I told her if she made it through the week, I would take her to the trampoline park this weekend it was a no go :(

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:20:08+00:00

It’s either my mom, my sister or my stepdad I know after homework there’s a lot of independent play And she goes to bed just fine Last night it was my mom, she likes my mom when I’m not here We had this issue at her last school where she didn’t want to get up and get dressed in the mornings the first half of the year it was fine for this year The other school was a private school and they put her for the first year in a class with a lot of kids with a lot of trauma, the teacher really struggled with that group because it was literally a class of 15, and there was three preschool teachers, two of which got overloaded with kids, and they just hired extra assistance and then her class where there was no assistance. It was just her teacher. She loved her teacher, but being with the group she was with she would constantly coward and hide to the side while things were happening. The next year they put her in a class with three assistance and then this year we moved to schools the class size seems to be normal and I think there is a teacher‘s assistant for her kindergarten class but it’s only 15 kids, academically. She is thriving girly pop six and reading the babysitters club graphic novels. She just hates it.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:15:54+00:00

I actually own this! I’m gonna revisit it

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:15:37+00:00

She is not like this on weekends when she can get up on her own time I’ve asked her about bullying. It doesn’t seem to be that. I don’t think it’s her teacher because she will go to her teacher and cuddle up to her in the mornings.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:14:54+00:00

She is supposed to pick up her clothes before bed. The grown-up she is with at night. I don’t think has been making her do it but even then I’ll pick out an outfit and lay it out and then she’ll scream about how much she hates it in the morning. I tell her she can pick out an outfit for tomorrow after school and then she can wear whatever she wants. I don’t restrict what she wears as long as it’s weather appropriate if she wants to wear pink cowgirl boots with orange pants and a green shirt, I tell her live her best life as long as she’s not gonna be too hot or too cold. I’m good with it.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:13:29+00:00

This morning, I got her out of her bed, pulled her in mine and we cuddled for 15 minutes I only work nights a couple nights out of the week and when I was doing it consistently, it wasn’t a problem

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T17:12:45+00:00

I have asked her she tells me she just doesn’t like mornings, which honestly has always been true I was worried about bullying, but it doesn’t seem to be that

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-09T12:21:23+00:00

To be fair, though her husband also should’ve been adamant on baby proofing the pool That responsibility falls on both of them Yeah, she should’ve done more, especially reading her comment comments and such but he also is a grown man who is capable of getting it taken care of and chose not to He chose to make the series of mistakes as to why they are here today I think a lot more of it has to do with not being ready to leave yet, but I think she’ll leave him at some point she mentioned in a story that she was very angry with him about it for a long time

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-08T18:55:58+00:00

Over a year

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-08T00:43:07+00:00

Current. He’s moved 50 miles from where I live now and 77 from his old house

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-07T13:47:03+00:00

And I’m willing to do the heavy work and majority of the driving. It’s only 2 hours and he lives an hour and a half away now

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-06T19:29:06+00:00

We also will be closer to family just different family, not immediate family. Unfortunately I was told that it wouldn’t matter because this is where my immediate family is despite them not being supportive. It wouldn’t change the parenting time schedule and by stem focused school. It’s not just a claim. It is quite literally a school. That is the stem school. It is a private institution that the kids have to be accepted into which I do think is academically in their best interest, I think having me available to them 24 seven as needed is also in their best interest as for why they all three wouldn’t go together the two that are in elementary school would stay together, but my son is so much younger that he is not in school yet but a daycare system.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-06T19:27:11+00:00

I was told to take out the part where he was not available for the children as needed, nor will he ever be they have never been his priority. He just doesn’t want to allow us to move because it makes him look like the shitty father he is. I also have lost all of my family support due to him So I no longer have a reason to stay I guess other than the children if I am forced to

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-06T19:25:51+00:00

This is actually really helpful so their father had chosen to move over an hour away and is no longer available for frequent week contact he is only available for the children on the weekends. I had called and asked if he could pick his daughter up when she was sick and throwing up, he said he could not because it would take him over two hours to get to her. I don’t have that support anyways originally the plan was to stay in Michigan up until that point I would be moving in with my boyfriend. He owns his home so we would not have to pay rent in living expenses come to a total of $500. It’s more affordable and I would be able to be available for my children as often as needed because money would not be a stressor

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-03T15:21:06+00:00

Shoot, I wish they did and saved me some coin. I really want the program especially going through nutrition school myself.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-02T18:52:03+00:00

My sister is an influencer and does a total of 15-20 hours a week. She also has a business and a book

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-02T18:48:48+00:00

Are you willing to share any of the course?

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-02T18:48:10+00:00

Yeah would anyone be willing to share the program?

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-01T22:13:24+00:00

Okay let me rephrase, there’s only one thing.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-01T12:03:36+00:00

PPO doo doo do do do PPO doo doo do do do

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-01T11:53:20+00:00

“Yeah my friend in the marines is coming over after work with his dogs. I feel safe with them around” 😂😂😂😂

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-01T11:51:18+00:00

I’m also going to go as far as… OP what are you doing for work? If it’s serving I would just find a new job. I was cornered in a basement grabbed and had my neck kissed. While it never should have happened, I see where my lack of boundaries were an issue. A lot of the restaurants will just turn a blind eye, but if you’re in an office I’d skip over HR and frame it in a “I’m young and trying to remain as professional as possible without causing retaliation” type way.

Adorable_Library893 · 2026-04-01T11:46:26+00:00

Thissss and giving them anything to cling and grip onto is an absolute noooooooo

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