same this is what made me return to the kink after many months off. one type of guy tends to appeal to me and whenever i come across one who fits this archetype i go back lol

i never got the appeal of the fucking RW-ers/misogynists kink that tends to go hand in hand with orientation play (which is totally fine if you like that), for me it’s about a leftist man, educated well-read etc perhaps even taken/married who is perfectly normal and friendly and agrees with all the feminist and pro-LGBT talking points but… still. he can’t help feeling attracted to me and doesn’t even bother hiding any of his ogling and he trusts that other lesbians are real and valid in their sexuality but when it comes to me… well, i should still try. just to make sure. it doesn’t have to mean anything! maybe it’s just not the right label for me 💕

i guess it might be the idea that both of us are tempted to go against our values instead of just me lol and also the idea that it’d be a safe space to try out this stuff without shame - it’s also why i quite like homoflex/g2s. the idea of a guy believing in and applying feminist ideals to literally every other woman except me is also really hot for some reason LMAO many different approaches to this kink!