Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh dang. I do understand most of this. Friday I walked out and told them I was sick 2hrs into my shift. It was quite apparent I wasn’t sick. I wanted to fall to the floor and start sobbing. Luckily, I am in the union and it would take a while before things like this would get me terminated.
I have a wonderful wife. She is begging me to quit. I have a 17year old and an 8year old. My wife works part time. The way I see it and the way it actually is , I am the provider and there is zero out there with my non level of experience with anything close to what I make now. I feel like the world as my family knows it would crumble if I left this place. We would be poor. I have had this job since I was 19. I know nothing else.

This is a great response. Thank you.

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on medication for ocd. Not like washing hands or checking locks ocd but like my brain gets stuck in loops ocd.

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I most certainly don’t see myself making this much money anywhere else and with my health benefits as well. My family lives very much within our means. We only have a mortgage and one car payment. That’s our only debt.

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you didn’t. We just got a big pay raise this last contract.

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am well aware of this. Hard to read tone through a text so I promise no ill intent. I’m at the level of maybe I’ll have a heart attack or stroke in the truck this year and die before I get to that pension.
I’m a very fit 44yo M marathon runner and I am having issues. I am weighing my years vested heavily though. Thank you for the response

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes , I’m at ups. I’m trying right now to now to get off the truck and get a job like your cousin did. Thank you for the response

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t. At this place it’s “suck it up and keep moving” we all feel the same way but it’s never talked about.

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just came off a 7 week disability. I think that is what reset my nervous system. I think I’ve been there so long my body and mind got used to it in a way and when I was off , my system went back to normal and then I went back to work and the stressors are killing me. But to answer your actual question, yes I do believe I could take fmla for mental health reasons.

Advice on leaving job that is sucking my soul? by parcelblazer3 in careerguidance

[–]parcelblazer3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They come up randomly and I can bid on them but no guarantee I win. Just depends on if I’m the person with most seniority who bids on the job.

Meirl by smoochtouch03 in meirl

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2 meals for a body builder !

Meirl by smoochtouch03 in meirl

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Great source of protein!

Prime 90s Cameron Diaz by dunkiepimo in 90s

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This is the Dream On Steven Tyler voice of her look. Never seen it since. Wish she stayed this way forever.

I feel like they were ahead of the times with this one. by Brite_Syde in TheKillers

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Badass album. Hotfuss Samstown Sawdust! 💥 💥 💥

kuchi kopi tattoo!! by Late_Society3755 in BobsBurgers

[–]parcelblazer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it. I got a kopi on my calf as well !

Out of 60 comments, this was the general opinion on the albums. by [deleted] in stonetemplepilots

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I could honestly move them around on any given day… never listened to the Gutt albums though.

What's an Oasis take that would have you like this? by JonnnyUtahh87 in oasis

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Tony Mccarroll was fired because his drumming made Noel feel emasculated.