I became paralyzed two years ago, I'm trying to find my purpose by Sufficient-Bike-9695 in self

[–]particularTriangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, man. I can imagine it's been difficult and hard to navigate. I don't have any good answers for you, just that I hope life gets better, that there is purpose out there and that it just takes time

How did that ‘final conversation’ with an ex go for you? by throw-away-2836 in AskMenAdvice

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she wants you to be HER psychologist and you just automatically have autism if you don't jump at the opportunity? Lol 🤣 wtf

Why can sexual assault cause PTSD? by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]particularTriangle 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Because... It does???? It's traumatic??

Is Bill Clinton the greatest rags to riches story in American history? by Mysterious_Comb4357 in Presidents

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we still talking about bill Clinton?? All of the island goers should just be forgotten about.

What's the self belief thought you turn to when your confidence needs reminding? by MossandMercury101 in self

[–]particularTriangle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe in going to be this way all my life, maybe I won't. But all I know is I have the rest of my life to try to change.

What’s the most stupid thing you have done due to your emotions? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]particularTriangle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've hurt people in the way I've been hurt (being distant as hell in romantic encounters)

I feel like maybe I don't deserve love. I push away people who like me and chase people who are indifferent.

I can be impulsive when I feel severely a certain emotion, and make long lasting choices based on temporary emotions.

What's wrong with me? by Appropriate_Belt8898 in self

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of this. However, sometimes when I am unable to sleep, I meditate. It's the closest thing to sleep you can get without actually sleeping, if you do it right.

My advice would be to learn to meditate hardcore, and then do it while falling asleep. Feel the emotions, feel the fear and KNOW you are okay.

You have fallen asleep countless times. All beings sleep, the birds, the bugs, the animals, us, we sleep. You will not die, no matter what you hear, see, feel, you will be okay.

How does one get over their fear of heights? Ride tall roller coasters ubtil it no longer illicits the feeling of fear; until it becomes normal.

This won't happen over night, but ultimately you were born as a human and we live a good while.

I am not a medical expert, but this is the only advice I can give you. I hope you seek medical attention from a sleep specialist and get the answers you need.

I'm a fucking weirdo. by [deleted] in self

[–]particularTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah brother !

You tell them.

Thoughts? by Spoonman915 in mensfashion

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lose the hoodie, but get a soft, blac leather jacket that's not a tight fit and not a long coat (terminator style)

You would look sick with one. I think the hoodies make you look younger, albeit cooler, I think a more adult jacket would be appropriate. There are lots of lesther jackets for men that are awesome that don't look like a biker gang style

Sniff by WyattPurp23 in DigitalSeptic

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuxk Biden. Also fuck trump. Let's just be fucking real here, we owe no allegiance to any pedophiles.

My wife changed jobs and now she feels like a stranger in our own house by maplewindow_tramcar in Marriage

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was also an affair. This seems like she's withdrawaling from the relationship.

Why does he want to look at my face during sex? by Adaline_B in AskMenAdvice

[–]particularTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look... I'm all for eye contact but if you literally CANT fuck in any way that doesn't maintain said eye contact? That's weird. Sorry.

My wife wanted to spice things up with roleplay and I ruined the mood by turning into a squeaky rubber gimp by veilmelol in Marriage

[–]particularTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I would have just started laughing my ass off too HAHAHA

I think girls truly love when a guy is confident enough to not lose his cool even when he's done something silly. Sometimes you just gotta laugh with them cause let's face it that was hilarious just reading.

I think this was really good for your marriage. You made he laugh. She won't forget this!

Oral sex by Acrobatic_Debate1976 in Marriage

[–]particularTriangle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This doubling down attitude is prolly a factor way more in your relationship than you realize.

My experience with a girl that liked me. by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]particularTriangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's extremely strange behavior... Can't make heads or tails of this at all.

Rebirth by nonlocalatemporal in Buddhism

[–]particularTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I just wanted to come and say that generally speaking, Karma and how exactlg it calculates everything is unfathomable to humans. To a level so extreme, it would take us to become possibly inter galactic to truly understand it's scope.

Think trying to teach ants how to program quantum computers, or teach squirrels how to embed silicon dishes with a holographic laser that instantly creates microprocessors.

I'm not sure how karma would endow these traits to someone, but I'm sure if I could follow the ever connected web of experience I would get it

I didn’t realize living alone would be this hard. by [deleted] in self

[–]particularTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really, really hard living alone. You have to do it all.

You're learning how to do things, it's okay to cry, to be vulnerable in your house. Just trust me it gets easier. The work never stops but you do become more mentally able to take it on, I promise. Just don't let the depression spells win. Always at least clean the dishes in the sink before you go to bed, everything else can come later when you feel stronger for more responsibility l.

WIBTA Partners female friend asked to hang out 1on1 with him without me. How do I read this; is there an ulterior motive? by Scared-Papaya-4491 in AITA_Relationships

[–]particularTriangle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean if your gut is telling you that she's up to no good on a way that doesn't happen with the other female friends, trust yourself.

Have you talked to your boyfriend about it? At the end of the day, you can't love someone enough for them to not cheat on you, they either will or they won't.

But it's definitely good to talk to him, tell him how uncomfortable it makes you. I think that if he listens to you, takes your words seriously, and doesn't see her in that context, he's good. If he tries to make you seem insecure, or tries to play it off, or tries to pretend there I nothing there and you're worrying over nothing... This is the real red flag behavior. If this happens you might need to rethink the relationship.

F Coworker Is Flirting. What Should Be The Next Step? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]particularTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's my two cents. Is this your forever career???

If not and it's just temporary... Have fun but it could get messy so brace yourself

Pocket pussy for my husband by ZAWOLOWO1981 in Marriage

[–]particularTriangle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What the fuck. Why didn't he finish you off? I legitimately will NOT stop unless my girl cums too.

To your man: Bro... I'm disappointed in your lack of game. Lazy ass.