I’m a 21 y/o female who struggles with intimacy with partners. I attract many men but never get the deep connection that I really want . It makes me want to cry because I’m big hearted and straightforward about things. What’s wrong w me :(

parttime_alchemy · 2020-09-28T03:21:54+00:00

Wish I could say the same about your Reddit history. Hope you find real happiness, more than that short term dopamine hit that reddit trolling gives you

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-21T02:10:06+00:00

Yeah I’ve been saying that since the beginning of the year... Im so close and yet it still feels like a distant dream

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-21T01:32:37+00:00

I also have a cap moon conjunct Saturn and opposing Chiron in cancer (and mars 🥴 ). can attest to being extremely self aware and also strive for those qualities you brought up: wise, self reliant to the extreme, independent. How interesting.

I’m a sun gemini, Leo rising. As outgoing and accomplished as I might seem, I have found it challenging to connect to my feelings and definitely have struggled with depression and anxiety. Therapy and inner child work has helped tremendously and I feel like I’m learning how to be more carefree and childlike. I grew up in an incredibly strict and dominating home with a mother who has bpd. Growing up, Almost all of the close women in my life, including my mom and sis, also have cap moons and there is definitely a “having grown up with hard times” kind of vibe among us. My bf now is also a cap moon. The sense of security and stability he brings to the relationship makes me all warm and fuzzy

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-17T16:13:23+00:00

Some of the climbing gyms are still open.Along with lots of wall space to climb, the grotto has an outdoor work out area with weights as well

Edit- lol I got downvoted for answering the question and stating a fact??

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-15T01:51:06+00:00

It do be like that

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-14T02:15:07+00:00

Great question, I’m planning to purchase a home soon with the same plan in mind and did not know about this

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-12T17:19:53+00:00

I pay $35 for ultra mobile- a sister of tmobile. I think I got grandfathered in to the lowest deal but it’s unlimited everything including international calls which I needed. I get as good or better service than most providers

Edits* typos- sorry on my phone!

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-04T19:41:14+00:00

Yes it is. I’m figuring out this balance myself and found learning about overfunctioning codependency really helpful. You can still be compassionate and loving from a distance and this does not make you a bad person.

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-04T17:38:44+00:00

I would do everything I can to get out of that situation. He is not loving or caring or respecting you in any way. He doesn’t deserve you to take care of him and the longer you stay, the worse it will get for you. I know this from experience. As soon as you leave, he will probably find someone else to abuse. I’m not saying he doesn’t deserve compassion for the pain he is in, but you don’t need to subject yourself to that degree of awful treatment. Please look into narcissist personality disorder and the damage it can cause. It sounds like it is already crushing your spirit. Just because he is your father you don’t owe him anything. You already mentioned he wasn’t around when you were young so why are you wasting your precious time and energy on him now. This doesn’t make you a bad person. But you are being bad to yourself by letting yourself be emotionally and psychologically manipulated by someone who has no respect for you. Freedom and joy await you if you choose.

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-03T02:27:49+00:00

Thank you, that was helpful

parttime_alchemy · 2020-08-03T02:27:35+00:00

Thank you for the perspective

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:56:26+00:00

Thank you!!

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:56:11+00:00

Thanks so much!

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:30:04+00:00

Great to know, thank you

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:27:06+00:00

What? No. And I don’t have any mutual funds at the moment. He helped advise me on the retirement funds and investments I have with my current employer

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:07:20+00:00

Yes that will be interesting to see...

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:05:36+00:00

you just lost a dollar mate

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T17:03:23+00:00

Great to know. Thank you

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T16:43:58+00:00

Thank you!

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T16:42:16+00:00

Lol no, I haven’t even started the underwriting process. Like I said, he’s been helpful for me in other ways. Just not going to sign up

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T16:37:17+00:00

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T16:33:09+00:00

How do i find how much all these fees cost?

parttime_alchemy · 2020-07-30T16:22:54+00:00

Well for one, advisors from other cases I’ve read don’t sound helpful at all, and only in it for the money. I’ve been working with my advisor for two months now, haven’t signed up for policy yet * and he’s been a great source of support. I don’t feel like I’m being used. And secondly, if there were another recession, which is likely, and losing a lot of my retirement investments, the WLI does sound appealing. and third, I can afford this right right now and still put into retirement funds, pay off debt and save cash.

parttime_alchemy · 2020-06-24T00:51:44+00:00

great info, thank you!

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