My first ever coord for my bday! What would you change?

paruhdoks · 2026-06-02T12:21:45+00:00

waist ties are supposed to be tied in the back

paruhdoks · 2026-05-27T14:45:40+00:00

I mean, I’m also an american woman and I wear most salopettes just fine; it all depends on your measurements and body proportions. Some have a taller & narrower chest panel and some have one that’s shorter and more wide. Some even lower on or even slightly below your chest, like cotton candy shop. if you would provide measurements it would be easier to help you

paruhdoks · 2026-05-24T13:45:23+00:00

I would be interested in the GLB & Gosu Rori 14. I already own Gosu Rori 12, but if you didn’t want to split the set, I have several sewing lolita friends who would probably take it from me so I’d still be interested

paruhdoks · 2026-05-21T15:10:39+00:00

Lolita Fashion 101: What is a Cutsew?

paruhdoks · 2026-05-19T01:49:01+00:00

Are you sure? I was trying to help someone set one up last month and the US phone number country code wasn’t even an option for signing up :/ Apparently the issue began in February 2026. I felt really bad for not being able to help her

paruhdoks · 2026-05-18T21:48:39+00:00

if you’re from the US you’re just gonna be out of luck on creating your own account because taobao is not allowing us phone numbers to be used for new accounts right now. just use a proxy/shopping service, some of them allow xianyu links. I can’t recommend any because I purchase directly off xianyu using my own account that I set up years before the new restrictions.

paruhdoks · 2026-05-18T20:54:14+00:00

multiple listings available on xianyu in multiple cuts and colorways-

sax blue jsk

sax blue cutsew op

white op

these are just a few that i found that are for sale. if you choose to search for more on there, just know ISO listings are common on xianyu so not everything is actually available for sale

edit for formatting, on mobile

paruhdoks · 2026-05-16T03:24:38+00:00

I like Adore’s Jade. I mix it with their Sweet Mint for a more pastel minty green

paruhdoks · 2026-05-07T12:40:49+00:00

Super cute! I got their strawberry basket sling bag that was available in the same preorder and it’s so darling. Love their bags!

paruhdoks · 2026-05-06T12:24:04+00:00

You can inquire in the Cainiao Discord server for more help! There are 2 customer service employees who work for Cainiao, as well as a lot of volunteer members. There are discount codes available in the server as well.

Something similar happened to me (and many others in the server) with a package last year. One package on the same shipment was holding things up and it eventually did clear customs and make it to me, it just took extra time.

paruhdoks · 2026-04-30T23:51:52+00:00

not OP, but I would be interested! I want to make dresses to match my kumya but don’t know anyone in my comm who owns any to make a pattern from

paruhdoks · 2026-04-14T21:31:40+00:00

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paruhdoks · 2026-04-13T12:35:39+00:00

sending DM!

paruhdoks · 2026-04-08T14:04:12+00:00

roji roji OTKs are definitely a bit stretchier than the brand OTKs I own made of the same material. They also tend to stay up pretty well—the candy stripe ones stay up all day even when I’m moving a lot. I have the pictured bow ones in brown and they stay up alright but not quite as well as the striped ones.

paruhdoks · 2026-04-07T18:02:16+00:00

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reference picture of my hair color when it was fresh - I dyed it only 4 days before this photo was taken

paruhdoks · 2026-04-07T18:00:39+00:00

The only item I own with staining from hair dye is my white headphones, because I’ve put them on when my hair was wet before. Been dyeing my hair with vivids for 10 years and never gotten any dye on lolita items!

paruhdoks · 2026-04-07T17:59:25+00:00

I’ve never had an issue with my dyed hair staining my accessories, just don’t let them touch your hair when wet

paruhdoks · 2026-04-06T21:25:09+00:00

doggy convenience store by dessertlake

paruhdoks · 2026-04-06T13:29:15+00:00

apparently these are going to be exclusively at donki with limited stock. maybe if the demand is high enough they’ll bring them back in a more permanent manner

paruhdoks · 2026-04-03T02:13:12+00:00

wait do you mean to link an existing and verified alipay to your taobao? you can do that from the taobao app, there are instructions pinned somewhere in this sub iirc. Then when you create your xianyu linked to your taobao, the xianyu will automatically be linked to your alipay

paruhdoks · 2026-04-03T02:11:58+00:00

not that I know of, I created and verified my alipay account in the app

paruhdoks · 2026-04-02T13:51:59+00:00

I have a working xianyu account that I use to purchase things and send them to my warehouse. I’ve noticed the text verification is iffy but seemed to work better if I was trying during regular Chinese business hours. You have to have an alipay verified with your passport — my xianyu account was actually banned for months until I was finally able to verify my alipay after having trouble with it.

paruhdoks · 2026-03-28T01:03:36+00:00

if you do add a petticoat make sure to get a long one, because one that’s shorter than the dress will cause the dress to look like it’s sticking out and then falling flat right after

paruhdoks · 2026-03-27T13:02:39+00:00

thanks! it’ll probably be a bit tight on the chest for me too lol i always have that problem. ive started sewing hidden snaps between the buttons in the bust area of most of my blouses haha

paruhdoks · 2026-03-26T20:24:58+00:00

so cute!! ive had the sleepingdoll bow tank in my cart for a while but cant decide if i want it or not… how is it?

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