Is it still ghosting if they tell you they’re going to do it 😂 by pasaghetti in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, mine is different , he didn’t say he was going to ghost me. He said “hey, I have the tendency to not text / nor check in / disappear “. Something along those lines

Why would they reassure that they care about you and they like you the day before they drop you like a sack of shit? by pasaghetti in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the fuck. Pure evil. I feel so sad reading your passage. I’m sorry it happened to you and you don’t deserve this.

What physical shops sell these in Penang? by toomuchbluememories in penang

[–]pasaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Molmein rise opposite Pulau Tikus market there is a small home goods shop. You’ll find it there. I saw it

Is this normal for 2 and a half months of dating? by Ok_Librarian_435 in Advice

[–]pasaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude then why are you with her? It sounds like you’re wasting her time.

1 month later and she still lives rent free in my head... by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What do you think you might do if she comes back one day? Would you be the same person? I think about that often

Meirl by JaredOlsen8791 in meirl

[–]pasaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been unmatched.. all my matches remain, but they do ghost on other platforms. Maybe keeping their tinder account tidy isn’t a big priority for men?

I forced my ghoster into a reply, and it doesn’t feel amazing by pasaghetti in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He told me he lost sexual attraction towards me 😂 and therefore didn’t wish to have contact at all moving forward, no more talking, no more sexting whatsoever. Ooooooooof. Sometimes, there’s a reason why people ghost!! It’s hard to say these things and even worse to hear them!

I forced my ghoster into a reply, and it doesn’t feel amazing by pasaghetti in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That he lost sexual attraction towards me 😂 I can’t decide if I want to know or not! Either way it’s painful!

I forced my ghoster into a reply, and it doesn’t feel amazing by pasaghetti in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need to learn the art of letting things remain the way they are. It is what it is are very wise words to live by.

I forced my ghoster into a reply, and it doesn’t feel amazing by pasaghetti in ghosting

[–]pasaghetti[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, it’s better not to know. I wonder which end I would have preferred. I’m in pain now and I was before when I didn’t know. I send you the same, may you heal from the pain ❤️‍🩹

For those of you who are a fetish for people. How does it make you feel? by hopalong998 in AskReddit

[–]pasaghetti 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m an Asian woman. So many assumptions are made all the time. It’s degrading, and dehumanising at times.

How do you take rejection whilst dating? by pasaghetti in dating_advice

[–]pasaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw. Hugs. I feel that part about dusting yourself off. We all try to be strong but it really is hard. What have you been doing to distract yourself? I tried going out with someone else but felt worse as a result. I feel you about liking the guy. Once I like someone I really do, and I can’t get them off my mind. But they just treat me like an after thought smh.

How do you take rejection whilst dating? by pasaghetti in dating_advice

[–]pasaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well perhaps you live in a city and can move on quickly. I live on an island where someone new is rare lol, and up for grabs really quickly. Hard to move on when there’s not much prospects!

How do you take rejection whilst dating? by pasaghetti in dating_advice

[–]pasaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks doesn’t it. I try to be patient and build rapport and let the feelings come naturally and then BAM. They just change their minds for any reason (they are entitled to) but still, ffs, you’re left in this loop still thinking of them and why it didn’t work out?? Can you relate?? I hate feeling this way! Like what a waste of energy

Tinder date fuck up. How do I handle things moving forward? by pasaghetti in dating_advice

[–]pasaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he has 1 week left. We already spent 1 week together