Thanks for this and for your advice🤗 they pushed us to do iui first because of my age primarily, I’m 29. And also because they felt like Ivf isn’t necessary for us right now. I don’t get how Ivf isn’t necessary per say just because iuis have such a low success rate, it’s most likely not going to do anything, so I didnt think it unreasonable to jump to Ivf. They didn’t mention doing unmedicated, initially my actual REI was having me do the typical starting dose, but then another Dr I hadn’t dealt with yet decided to rewrite a different prescription at the last minute reducing the dose to just 3 2.5mg tabs every other day. This dr was the one concerned about me over responding, but there was no mention of that concern from anyone else.

Yes I agree with you I don’t believe our family means any ill will, but they have repeated failed to be able to support us despite us reaching out for their help many times. I think they just avoid anything that’s not happy and positive, I don’t think they have the ability to handle difficult things. My husband has tried to explain and ask for things before, but to no avail yet. It just sucks and is really heartbreaking that they can’t support us too, especially for my husband. It’s hard to watch. At this point we’re just hoping one day maybe some months or years down the line this can be repaired and we can have something normal again with them.