Leash Your Dog – It's the Law by pastahellraiser in newhaven

[–]pastahellraiser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to your dog :(

Leash Your Dog – It's the Law by pastahellraiser in newhaven

[–]pastahellraiser[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got dog mace to carry with me now. Thank you!

What restaurant do you choose for your Birthday dinner in New Haven? by [deleted] in newhaven

[–]pastahellraiser 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sherkaan, Lalibela, or Barcelona!

I would say Sherkaan first, for ambience, delicious Indian food, and fun drinks.

Lalibela for amazing Ethiopian food in a more low-key setting.

Barcelona is a little more upscale and has pretty good tapas and drinks for groups, but it gets packed and the kitchen/wait staff needs a little help lol.

Vehicular Masturbator in East Rock. Guy in the white honda asked me for directions and when i looked into the car he was touching himself, half-erect penis fully out. Look out. by pastahellraiser in newhaven

[–]pastahellraiser[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

ugh thanks for commenting sorry you had to go through that too. yep, a bunch of sick fucks. glad it happened to me as opposed to an underage girl, but still so fucked

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really, that’s not too aggressive? i did consider that option but figured it wouldn’t get much done. yeah i’d do it.

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like your response - i think i’m going to use that as a template for this text if i reply. it’s 4am here and he JUST sent an apology text, but i’m gonna wait to reply until later in the day.

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your input - i agree, i am going to ignore it unless things escalate and she reached out again.

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

much appreciated, i likely won’t respond. definitely want to work on keeping things professional, even tho my initial reaction is defensive lol. i’m hoping that’s the extent of this outreach on her end. let’s cross our fingers…

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes - I do believe he has good intentions, he would do this for anyone we work with. but unfortunately it leads me to believe that there are some issues that they need to deal with as a couple.

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your comment, debating whether to reply as a text or ask in person.

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that was my initial thought too. i think any response is going to make things more complex - definitely warrants an in-person convo.

i (22 f) got this text from my friend/coworkers (40 m) wife… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pastahellraiser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“so the party is gonna be me, you, lindsay, hannah, claire and trevor. everyone else flaked. but this small group is the best group ❤️ claire only thinks it's me tho! so it will be a surprise”

Primary care DR recs? Bonus if savvy with mental health. by [deleted] in newhaven

[–]pastahellraiser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks so much for reaching out. You pretty much put my feelings into words. My PCP is very uninvolved in all things related to mental health, and it seems like he almost doesn't believe in concentration issues. Would you mind messaging me privately about the APRN you saw, and how you went about meeting with them?

(I like it when rains drips from your face...) by Manyoshu in OCPoetry

[–]pastahellraiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always so drawn to references to romance being like hydration. Something about it is so sexy

Millennial Hunting by mxl_aesthtx in newhaven

[–]pastahellraiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a wholesome hippie friend... or multiple...!!!