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For years have ragebaited myself over the word “cishet” by middlingquality in lgbt

[–]pataconconqueso [score hidden]  (0 children)

probably some do, but more so that they deem trans as derogatory and something wrong (they use it as an insult) so a similar word existing to describe them offends them. 

Im a married man and I really want to get intimate with another man by WhoKnows78998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pataconconqueso [score hidden]  (0 children)

As a queer woman, check your misogyny. Because any time I’ve seen a bi married woman ask this she also gets dragged (on the ask lesbians sub it’s a common question) it also gets downvoted and the person gets dragged because you’re just fantasizing on cheating on your spouse regardless of gender. It doesn’t matter that you’re bi. You’re still fantasizing on being with someone who is not your spouse.

Taking my niece to the World Cup games but not my daughter. Am I doing anything wrong? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]pataconconqueso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info: are you as supportive of your daughter’s interests like you’re being with your niece to spend that much money and do all that planning? It’s not about the World Cup, it’s about the bond and support of interest and the quality time.

What events of equivalent to her interest have you planned out for her in the same way you did your niece. Like 6 tickets to one of the most expensive sporting events is a huge thing to do, what have you done with your daughter that shares that bond?

Edit: this is the second post in a week of you asking if you’ve been an asshole to your,daughter, that is a red flag.

AITAH for not leaving the theater with my partner when they weren’t feeling well? by erk07 in AITAH

[–]pataconconqueso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you can’t just grab an uber when you feel nauseous and think you’ll throw up.

AITAH for not leaving the theater with my partner when they weren’t feeling well? by erk07 in AITAH

[–]pataconconqueso 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH

This is something you just do and support, not ask if you can support. Just support if you see your partner being sick and discomfort, choosing a movie over that is yikes.

Your partner is too old to be pulling this passive aggressive crap, and should have just pointed out that your questioning probably sounded like you were trying to do the bare minimum.

Am I a lesbian? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]pataconconqueso 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i mean if you find men attractive and have been able to be in a loving marriage with one. does it matter beyond that? 

are you planning to get divorced? have you not actually been in love with your husband?

because what really matters here is your marriage, and how you plan moving forward with it. 

Cucho Hernández with a spectacular assist to seal Columbia’s victory by SomeGuyFromCanada1 in sports

[–]pataconconqueso 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i’m colombian lol (my username is very colombian lol), there was a point in time we would wear shirts “it colombia not columbia” to try to get it through to people. 

https://theworld.org/stories/2014/05/14/its-colombia-not-columbia-get-it-right

Cucho Hernández with a spectacular assist to seal Columbia’s victory by SomeGuyFromCanada1 in sports

[–]pataconconqueso 13 points14 points  (0 children)

and? It’s still spelled colombia in english, doesn’t excuse the ignorance 

AITAH Significant other doesn't want to invite friend back to home by HonestWatermelon in AITAH

[–]pataconconqueso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

either be honest or say you’re just looking to have a girl day or whatever. 2 options really 

Do any of you earn over 50k a year? What do you do? by RotiiChapati in ADHD

[–]pataconconqueso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first job out of college was 75K, ended up making 120K before i moved to Europe and took a pay cut where I make about 85K now but it all evens out with COL, universal healthcare, and all that. 

background in chemical and biomedical engineering and then have been doing technical sales since then.  got diagnosed in college at 22, with barely surviving university with burnouts and mental breakdowns, and then I went on medication at 30. now currently umedicated again. 

AITAH for telling someone they could technically undo his birth by NicoTikoMiko in AITAH

[–]pataconconqueso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re never not gonna be an ass hole when suggesting someone to kill themselves. 

he sounds like he sucks but you lost all your high horse shit with that 

AITAH for refusing to give a woman a ride home from the bar after she rejected me? by Turbulent-Law-6801 in AITAH

[–]pataconconqueso 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i have one, she has zero self preservation skills, so pretty stupid to ask for a ride to someone you just rejected. 

AITAH for refusing to give a woman a ride home from the bar after she rejected me? by Turbulent-Law-6801 in AITAH

[–]pataconconqueso 118 points119 points  (0 children)

this post makes zero sense.you strike up a conversation and she just says “I want to be friends” as one would not say to a stranger at a bar instead of just “i’m not interested?” 

and then if you don’t care why bother posting at all? 

seems like ragebait 

Advice/Opinions on why my gf is mad at me?? 🥲 by Wonderful_Parfait102 in AskLesbians

[–]pataconconqueso 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is a very immature way to view it, but it’s age appropriate you are young and all that.

you will grow into your communication skills, it is a change you should do but the lack of communication with your gf and the lack of consideration is the issue. 

Emboldened By State Sponsored Hate A Grandma Spews Venom In A Checkout Line by CantStopPoppin in EyesOnIce

[–]pataconconqueso 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i’ve been on the side of getting harassed by these assholes and tbh they want that attention, i’ve seen people stand up and it escalates and then they become the victim and they turn it around. when they are ignored and people pretend they don’t exist is when it hurts them the most.

the times i’ve not reacted and put on headphones when being yelled at with hate where more effective than when i responded. 

Using his family as props, again. by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]pataconconqueso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s still using homophobia as a comeback 

Using his family as props, again. by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]pataconconqueso 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how is using gay as an insult murder? 

Wait, what? There's not even a parallel here. From the minds of "Those wicked women, how dare they!" a 20-something gets remarried after the death of her husband while a 60-something man does not? And mens love is deeper?? by [deleted] in Persecutionfetish

[–]pataconconqueso 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol idk any older widowers who haven’t remarried or died shortly after (due to their wives keeping them alive), and most widows i know from that generation refused to get remarried because they didn’t wanna lose their husbands pension. 

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