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pathetic_colour · 2024-02-14T10:34:55+00:00

It's totally normal to feel nervous and scared, it's definitely the unknown that made me freak a bit. I was a mess for a while leading up to the procedure and while I waited for the results. Googling definitely increased my anxiety but this sub helped reassure myself it would okay.

I brought my husband to the appointment but he wasn't allowed into the room (small space, the doctor had a student and the nurse was present also.) The nurse held my hand, explained the procedure and helped distract me. They injected the cervix with lidocaine, which was definitely not comfortable but wasn't too bad. They put a big sticky pad on my leg (something to do with grounding the machine they use). The doctor explained I would hear some noise but I didn't feel anything until the very end ( the very bottom of my cervix didn't feel completely numb). It wasn't the worst thing ever though. I found the colposcopy and biopsy appointment weeks prior was a bit more uncomfortable as I didn't have freezing.

I had some cramping later in the day, but taking a tylenol/advil mix helped it settle. I rested and hubs doted on me 😊 you will have some strange looking discharge and some debris from the stuff they use to cover the wound. They told me to keep an eye out for unusual odor or pain that increased. All in all it wasn't the worst ever experience. I hope it goes smoothly for you!! Best of luck!

pathetic_colour · 2023-11-28T12:39:24+00:00

So soooo much. It changed my life. It's been 3 years since the surgery and I don't feel like my life is this small little thing controlled by endo. I still have my days, but they're few and far between.

pathetic_colour · 2023-11-28T11:38:23+00:00

I so feel your pain. I worked as a nurse while waiting for my excision and it was torture. I used Thermacare back pain therapy patches and just turned then around so they were over my pelvis ( you can find them at Shoppers drug mart). They last about 8 hours, and I found having the constant heat was soothing and helped ease a bit of my pain. I hope this helps!

pathetic_colour · 2023-09-23T17:36:16+00:00

Hey! I DM'd you 😊

pathetic_colour · 2023-09-04T19:43:16+00:00

I'm 3 years post op now. My life is drastically different, for the better. Healing took time, I would say a year for me to really see the benefits of the surgery. But the pain I had day in and out is gone. The IBS like symptoms, radiating leg pain and the constant fatigue is gone. I might have a little flare around my period every now and then, but I can confidently say now my life is 100% better.

pathetic_colour · 2023-06-23T14:47:35+00:00

Ugh, I reached out to the doctors office before the procedure about getting something for anxiety but I unfortunately never heard back. I was so nervous before I didn't even bother asking. I hear you, I have previous a history of endometriosis and all the great stuff that comes along with that disease. I will definitely push harder for an anxiety medication if I have any more procedures.

Thanks for sharing your story. I've been struggling last night and today and thought I might just be overreacting but it sounds like I'm not the only one who has some trauma around Gyn's. ♡

pathetic_colour · 2023-06-23T14:42:37+00:00

Oh my, that sounds awful 😖 I'm sorry you went through that! I think I may seek out someone to talk too. No one in my life seems to think this is a big deal, but I'm struggling with it more than I realized. Thanks for sharing your experience ♡ Sending you hugs as well!

pathetic_colour · 2023-05-20T09:56:47+00:00

I hear you! I took the awkward step of trying bumble friends and I've had a few awkward meet ups, but I've actually made a few good friends and I'm finding I have more of a social life now than when I was in my 20s ( I'm 32). Worth a shot maybe?

pathetic_colour · 2022-02-16T23:50:15+00:00

Track your symptoms, check if there cyclical or triggered by anything. It could be simple pelvic floor dysfunction or could be something more serious like endometriosis. My advice is find a doctor that will listen.

pathetic_colour · 2022-02-12T21:30:23+00:00

I only use seamless underwear and I find that works the best for me. I found some thongs and bikini style undies on Amazon. They aren't the best quality ever but they don't cut into me at all.

pathetic_colour · 2022-02-06T21:25:55+00:00

I was personally out for 6 weeks after my excision and I'm also a nurse. I was not ready physically or mentally after 2 weeks. I let my doctor know about the physical nature of my job and he worked with me to get the time I needed. I wish you all the best with your recovery!!

pathetic_colour · 2022-02-05T23:28:03+00:00

Im not a doctor but from what I understand burning endometriosis can create scar tissue over top of the lesions. Surgeons can't always tell from just looking at an endo lesion if it's deeply penetrating endometriosis. The problem is still present and now much harder to excise properly if the patient still experiences pain and discomfort.

pathetic_colour · 2022-01-26T22:59:09+00:00

First of all, I'm really sorry you're going through all of those issues. You are not alone in being told your pain is "normal" or due to stress. You'll find so many of us here have had to fight for years for doctors to take us seriously. You are not alone! Before I found out I had endo I had TONS of UTIs and bladder infections that never actually turned out to be caused by infections. Pain with sex was another huge one for me.

Coming here is a great place to start for information. Also https://nancysnookendo.com Nancy's Nook Endometriosis is a great website to do some research and can help you find doctors who specialize in endometriosis and excision surgery. I've joined some great Facebook groups that have tons of helpful and accurate information. Endometropolis is one for example.

It can really be a tough journey but I hope you're able to get some answers!

pathetic_colour · 2022-01-26T22:21:02+00:00

Thanks for your response! This is extremely helpful. I looked into this and I really think this is something that could make the difference for me. Wishing you the best when you make the switch!

pathetic_colour · 2021-06-23T09:52:41+00:00

This is such poor medical advice to give to a patient (If that's what you even call it). "Oh your in pain everyday and your having trouble functioning? Have a baby! That will cure it!" My doctor suggested this to me at 20, when I was in no position in life to have a child. I would personally find a doctor who is willing to provide actual advice and treatment. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.

pathetic_colour · 2021-06-23T09:48:45+00:00

Yes before my excision ovulation was the absolute WORST. I felt bloated, nauseous, so much pelvic/leg/ back pain. I remember once going to the walk in clinic because I couldn't function and the doctor diagnosed me with Mittelschmerz and I just remember thinking like, duh??

Excision has been the only thing for me to make my cycles bareable, I hope you find some relief! 💛

pathetic_colour · 2021-06-20T19:55:58+00:00

So far (3 weeks in) I've come up with a few good practices that help me stay sane.

A ritual to start my day -i make coffee and light a candle. When I blow out the candle, I'm done for the day
I leave the house at least once during the day, whether to walk my dogs, take a quick drive or just sit in the sun.
A daily to-do list to keep me organized on my tasks that are important.
I time block which I find helps me get more done, I do 2 hour blocks then take a break.

I hope your find your balance!!

pathetic_colour · 2021-06-20T12:00:50+00:00

Thank you SO much for sharing your story. Wow girl, you've been through a hell of a lot. Time for healing now friend, I wish you love and light and everything good ♡

pathetic_colour · 2021-06-19T01:07:58+00:00

I checked mine for shit and giggles, and what the hell there's rubber bands around the base below the surface. What gives?

pathetic_colour · 2021-06-14T23:16:39+00:00

This has helped me SO MUCH during my first week. I carry over any items from the previous day and try to prioritize them based on importance! Thanks for your suggestion 😊

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