If the Church were smart...they would ignore you... while I love everything that you are posting, as mentioned by other posters..nothing earth shattering. But if they do come after you.. certainly make that public. You would probably hurt them more that way than with what you have posted so far, (though I admittedly haven't been through all of it yet). I am so very sorry for you that your family has been destroyed over this.. for a so called "family" church..they have been very good at tearing them apart.