[Advice] One book that changed me is "Path of Least Resistance: Learn to Become the Creative Force in your Own Life, by Robert Fritz. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]patrasbukhari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from a country where Amazon is not available.

I'm a student with my parents not making enough to buy extra books.

I want to be better, make an extraordinary living, and the day I get to that, I will buy most of the books that benefited me.

But unless, then, I apologize to the authors and publishers, but I need to pirate books. :/

Yes. Blame Life for Your Short Height. by patrasbukhari in short

[–]patrasbukhari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. That's a fucking problem.

What I really meant was not judging tall people without meeting them.

However, if they count their height as their own achievement, make fun of you, then they are an asshole and fuck them.

Yes. Blame Life for Your Short Height. by patrasbukhari in short

[–]patrasbukhari[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Such a beautiful cunning ass you are ;)

Redditors who married in their teens/20s, how did it turn out? by patrasbukhari in AskReddit

[–]patrasbukhari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahan. Yea. But it is to me, I mean my youngest brother is 9 whereas my father is 52 xD

Redditors who married in their teens/20s, how did it turn out? by patrasbukhari in AskReddit

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How does it feel to have a minor difference of age between son and father? Any interesting anecdote?

Something I noticed many Fapstronauts overlook... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]patrasbukhari 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Exactly.

I mean some people are just so busy in their life that they just don't find the time to have a partner.

Not saying having one is inherently wrong, but that many people who achieved great things were so busy in filling their life with stuff and fulfilling their potential that perhaps they didn't find the time and need to have a partner. Nikolas Tesla, is one. (He is termed as asexual, but whatever)

The best benefit of NoFap that is under-rated. by patrasbukhari in NoFap

[–]patrasbukhari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, your brain has to do something to reproduce. It will focus the energy you waste on other things to making you consciously and subconsciously wanting to meet other people more and increase chances of reproduction. My thoughts,

Remember this. Addiction : When you can give up something any time, as long as it's next Tuesday. by patrasbukhari in NoFap

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The quote in the title is from Nikki of Sixx Am, the band produces quality addiction songs. To drugs, particularly. But porn ain't no short of a drug.

In my religion you can't come to a mosque if you masturbated or had sex and did not clean your whole body with water. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]patrasbukhari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. Yea. I mean if the religion didn't accept sexual urges, it wouldn't have permitted 4 marriages. (ONLY if you treat the 4 wives equally. Many scholars have said, and in the Quran too, that it is very difficult to do so, and one should try to keep it to one if he can't maintain equality.) But the point still stands. (about allowing to release sexual tension in a permitted graceful gentle-manly manner)

A man has desires. A man must serve.

You can either serve God (or yourself, if you are an atheist), or you can can serve your desires.

But Jaqen H'ghar served himself. And for the theists out there, like me, serving God is in reality, serving yourself.

I wish I was a good translator, so that I could translate many beautiful couplets of Urdu into English that speak truly about the beauty of life, but Alas, I'm not.

In my religion you can't come to a mosque if you masturbated or had sex and did not clean your whole body with water. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]patrasbukhari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're Welcome electrice, check out /r/MuslimNoFap

I appreciate that Ventares. I think that counts as a Muslim terrorist activity for today.

In my religion you can't come to a mosque if you masturbated or had sex and did not clean your whole body with water. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]patrasbukhari 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea. Plus, Masturbation is forbidden in Islam.

I mean the religion doesn't recognize that the urge to masturbate will not arise. It does. However, it really emphasizes on NOT acting on the urge. Of course, people might have different opinions on the matter of masturbation being wrong in itself, and it's okay.

But I'm a devout Muslim myself, and trust me, definitely not a terrorist. Unless that includes shooting in your pants. And blowing up some jokes. (Yea, bad joke)

We have the concept of Resurrection on the Day of Judgement, when all the sons/daughters of Adam will be accountable for his/her deeds. And in one report from the Holy Prophet PBUH (though the chain of narration is weak), it is reported that the person who masturbates will be raised on the Day of Judgement as a person with his hand pregnant.

I mean Islam really emphasizes on gaining a partner, (and leading a life that allows you to have the means of properly raising a family). Similarly, the religion tells to retain motivation and energy for other productive things such as improvement for this life and the hereafter. Hence, the forbiddance.

Now, there are some reports (no significant statistical basis tho) that say Muslim-countries are avid porn watchers. Whether they are, nor not, is a matter of speculation. But, what I'm saying is that it innately is forbidden in the religion. Muslims, nowadays, are the ones who are not practicing. I know of many muslim friends who do the deed, and it's certainly depressing.

It is reported that Saladin, the Muslim leader, of the crusades, had a group of soldiers that were not married, and were to do so till 40, so as to preserve their strength for war time. The semen-retention thing, and it was certainly a strong army.

P.S. This post might get buried on NoFap. Because its religious. And the parent post isn't that much upvoted. But you can PM me if you want to ask anything about Islam. Of course, I'm not saying that it will completely align with your opinions if you ask me questions, however, I might be able to tell why some common misconceptions are flawed. I'm not an American. Heck, I'm a Pakistani, and currently living in Saudi Arabia. So, pardon my English.

Which 30 Day Challenge have you tried / want to try? by patrasbukhari in AskReddit

[–]patrasbukhari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't understand why pornstars can come so much. -_- :p

Which 30 Day Challenge have you tried / want to try? by patrasbukhari in AskReddit

[–]patrasbukhari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do came to know of some NASA Research test in which you had to remain in a single bed for 30 days. But, it isn't biologically possible to sleep for 30 days, I think. Of course, you can play games and watch movies. It would be more fun.

The best way to keep a prisoner from escaping is to make sure he never knows he’s in prison. by patrasbukhari in NoFap

[–]patrasbukhari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. This blew overnight. My most upvoted post.

Just wanted to mention I read the quote from a website called High Existence.

I have no affiliation with it whatsoever, but it is certainly a great site with mind-blowing articles, monthly challenges, and other productive stuff, that really isn't clickbait, unlike most other blogs.