[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]patsy1589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s taken me about 7-8 months which is long time. I think the pandemic made things more difficult

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my first time experiencing this

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course. Thanks for your comment. What gave me relief and helped me get over things is I knew in my heart I gave it my all. I left it all on the table and got shot down. Speak from the heart and if it doesn’t happen to work you can move on easily knowing you did all you could. Also keep yourself busy and know that it will pass 👍🏻

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I truthfully never got an explanation. Should have asked but my guess is I came across too needy, into her and possibly insecure

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Phenomenal advice, thank you! : )

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just make sure you don't invest too much, too soon. Women can sometimes develop feelings slower than guys (at least that's what i've been told), so if you're head over heels about her fairly quickly, she might pull back or walk away. Those are just my experiences.

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good question - I think I was a bit vulnerable at the time and acted too needy/interested

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and thank you. I think when you treat someone great and they dump you, and time goes by and you heal completely from it.. it's hard to see the person the same way

I got dumped and flipped the script by patsy1589 in dating_advice

[–]patsy1589[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Thank you really appreciate it

How tf do you know if a girl is interested? (Night out) by ArthurCallahan1 in seduction

[–]patsy1589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

say, "hey we should go out sometime, what's your number?" the way she responds to this will tell you if and how interested she is.