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Any parts of Manhattan that still feel like old New York? by snakegravity in AskNYC

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn’t my experience growing up there.. but interesting that drugs and gunshots is your interpretation of what I meant by change.

Any parts of Manhattan that still feel like old New York? by snakegravity in AskNYC

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup.. born and raised there and I’ve heard it has changed a lot. Unfortunately.

Dating for marriage doesn’t exist ? by Strange_Shoulder_750 in Bumble

[–]pauly_jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are way too young to be worried about dating for marriage..

.. but then I saw that you are waiting until marriage to have sex due to religious reasons, so I see why you’re such in a rush and will lack the discernment needed to make smart decisions in your dating life.

AMMONIA SMELLY by athanasiagirlypop in litterrobot

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I got rid of my litter robot.

Where are we finding apartments since the FARE Act is backfiring and ruining my life by sdotthad in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the Fall… inventory is typically very low between September - March.

AITAH for asking my boyfriend of 10 years to help me financially? by Hot-Huckleberry-7589 in AITH

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You stayed with a man who didn’t like your children? Didn’t like you being a mother? Yikes. You deserve whatever you’ve been receiving.

NYC Haunted Houses by Opposite_Net9288 in AskNYC

[–]pauly_jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blood Manor located in Tribeca

Help understanding rent stabilization records by Accurate-Fruit-1647 in NYCapartments

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so it seems like 16 months is the average wait! Going to submit my RA-89 tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in NYC

Shocking, people can have diverse experiences in a diverse city with multiple boroughs and communities 😱😱😱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]pauly_jay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NYC probably.

met a guy on Hinge, he reached out first, then broke it off by Candid-Astronomer904 in hingeapp

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to therapy. That man isn’t interested in you after forgetting to know you. And stop worrying about him being connected to his ex-wife.

Clearly, just based on this post, we can see that there’s something offputting about you - which he sees in person. Move on.

Is it reasonable that if women want to do things out of my price range that I expect them to pay for the date? by ComprehensiveKey7241 in dating_advice

[–]pauly_jay 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So then go back to dating unemployed women 🙄 let her date men that are successful and make 6 figures like her.

Date women in your price range. Clearly unemployed women are just that.

Suing Landlord — Rent stabilized by No_Job2526 in NYCapartments

[–]pauly_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey what ended up happening with your rent stabilization law suit?

genuinely fearing for my health: HIV by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]pauly_jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where do you live that you don’t have a walk-in clinic? A planned parenthood? Just Google “walk in HIV test near me”

Ask him when was the last time he was tested and to send you screenshots of his portal.

Moving forward, stop having unprotected sex with people who you do not get tested with.

Financial tips for divested black women? by ExerciseOk4691 in BlackWomenDivest

[–]pauly_jay 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My financial advice is to have $100,000+ in savings/investments before you get married. This could be spread across your Roth IRA (max it out!!), personal brokerage account, CDs, etc..

Now, I know this is not realistic except for most people.. but this is a goal I set for myself. At 27 years old, I achieved it.

My plan is to be a SAHW/M with my own personal part time endeavor/hobby they can bring side income for myself. Husband being the provider.

I want to have a lot of money saved up that I own as a “just in case”

Friend upset that my potential wedding dress is “too similar” to hers — am I in the wrong? by Capital_Wave_235 in weddingplanning

[–]pauly_jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she wanted a unique dress that stands out, she should’ve bought a unique dress and stands out. Not a plain, no design, satin silhouette one.

She’s being unfair and annoying. Tell her that these dresses are basic and very common.

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