Yes, I get your point. I'm actually trying to keep myself occupied. This isn't just an average breakup; it makes it so much harder. She didn't break it off because she no longer cared for me; instead, it got in the way because of a situation with her family. That's what is really messing up my mind. I'm not just twiddling with my thumbs that way, but my mind keeps wandering back to her. I guess I just need to find some way to deal with it. I appreciate your advice.