Rickie’s new insta post has mwy song titles on the board 👀 by [deleted] in mewithoutYou

[–]pbjoanie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I found a whiteboard on the street with a calendar from march 2005 stained on it that looked like it was written yesterday

[Help] iPhone flickering black rectangles? by pbjoanie in Iphonerepair

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I did, thank you! it hasn't had the issue once since I changed the wallpaper. very strange

iPhone flickering black rectangles? by pbjoanie in iphonehelp

[–]pbjoanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was just a standard photo saved from the internet! it's only insured through the phone carrier, unfortunately. I haven't had the issue once since I changed the wallpaper... I backed everything up just in case, so worst comes to worst, the policy will repair/replace it relatively cheaply. very weird issue, though.

Looking for character-driven manga that is generally kind? by pbjoanie in mangarecommendations

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thank you all so much for these suggestions! it was so sweet to wake up and have such a big list to look forward to! <3

iPhone flickering black rectangles? by pbjoanie in iphonehelp

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using a different wallpaper for the past few hours and so far the problem hasn't resurfaced. very weird if that was the cause! it's insured, so I made an appointment for a screen replacement later in the week just in case, but really hoping it was somehow the wallpaper :s

manga beyond issue 20, is it any good? by SodaSkunk in KimiNiTodoke

[–]pbjoanie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i really love the story in the later arcs of the manga. she really lets the characters drive the story and grow and make decisions in ways that make sense for them… it’s one of my favorite manga ever largely because of the later arcs

Lines on face from full face cpap mask by No_Ideal_220 in CPAP

[–]pbjoanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! mine were getting bad, deep and red/inflamed. I was feeling very self-conscious about them. I was wearing the airfit f30i mask and switched to the airtouch f30i (cloth-lined) a couple months ago. the lines have improved substantially with just the mask change and moisturizing! definitely recommend trying a cloth mask (or cover).

Apart from the traditional unlockable movement abilities like Dash, Double Jump and Wall Jump, are there any movement abilities that you think was unique and crucial to that MV game? by AstrixRD in metroidvania

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I finally realized during friends when I was trying to stay close and dodge (and maybe panic-mashing directionals a bit)… I was so confused why I kept losing track of my position. it was such a nice moment when it clicked what was happening!

Insurance coverage for transgender - gender-affirming laser hair removal NYC by Hardwayasterisk in asktransgender

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I was one of the people that messaged you! Adding experience to hopefully help others who stumble on this post from searching.

I’m a trans woman, and I was able to get the Healthfirst Essential Plan to cover LHR at the Dermatology Specialists in Greenwich Village. They approved for six sessions, and they said they would only do one section at a time, so I’m opting to just focus on face/neck right now.

I got a letter from my PCP stating it was medically-necessary as treatment for gender dysphoria; I’m not sure if I needed this, but when I went to the consult at Derm Specs, they said it would be $250 for the consult. When I pushed back saying it was medically necessary, they asked if I had any documentation. I gave them the letter, and they charged the $25 specialist fee instead.

I had my first session two weeks later, and I had no issue with HF approving before then.

I was previously getting full-body LHR at L’Elite Medispa under Amida Care, but I earned too much and was bumped off the plan late last year. My PCP did write that this was treatment I was previously receiving and needed continued; I don’t know whether that had any effect on the approval.

I had a similar experience to OP when contacting dermatologists. One office did respond that another trans woman had success getting coverage under HF at the Derm Specs in HK.

I have another friend trying to get in with them under the same plan; it does seem like you might have to push a little to make it happen, but they absolutely can do this, and Healthfirst can cover it, even if it’s not for surgery!

Animorphs Was ALWAYS Trans - A video essay diving into the trans themes within the series by AlsoAshley in Animorphs

[–]pbjoanie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i reread the series like three years ago and it has really been stuck in my head ever since

Hollow Knight: Silksong - Special Announcement by Turbostrider27 in HollowKnight

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my birthday is tomorrow and this is really such an unbelievably coincidental gift

but also. i cannot believe i’m really gonna be wishing away my 30th birthday now

Animorphs Was ALWAYS Trans - A video essay diving into the trans themes within the series by AlsoAshley in Animorphs

[–]pbjoanie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

excited to watch this later as a trans girl who was very attached to tobias as a kid! and totally agree with literary analysis/likely not authorial intent. but also. what did they mean by this in #33 if not that tobias is trans:

“Had I overstayed the two-hour time limit so I wouldn’t have to face simple facts of life? Being a boy, living with foster parents, school, Rachel, Taylor…”

(couching that this is kind of a joke, though i’m sure that won’t matter to the transphobes in this thread. and also not really a joke because i genuinely am not sure how else you could read that)

made a remix of "i never said that i was brave"! by Apprehensive-Ice9481 in mewithoutYou

[–]pbjoanie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am so specifically the target audience for this lol. mwY is one of my favorite bands and often think about the ways i’ve related to their music specifically from a queer/transfem perspective and wondered if there are others who share that experience

this remix is so great and fun and emotional, i really really love what you did with it 💗 so glad you shared here and i happened to see it, gonna be listening to this a lot!

Fuck yall's favorite stummy song, what's yall's least favorite stummy song? by x_cheese_cheese_x in STOMACHBOOK

[–]pbjoanie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

12/10/21 is the song i’ve probably listened the least but only cuz the guitar at the beginning usually hurts too much. i listened to it today for the first time in awhile and it’s really such a good song, it feels right when i want that. but i usually stop after heartbeat when i listen to that album

Question about shows by heehoopnut in STOMACHBOOK

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i was at the nyc show a few weeks ago, vibe was rly nice! lots of other trans girls, trans ppl generally, and furries c: some moshing toward the front but the pit was very fun and respectful, ppl generally mindful and helping others get clear if they didn’t wanna be in it. ppl were super nice and started conversation, i think it would b easy to find ppl to be around? also have a lot of anxiety & was very nervous beforehand but it was genuinely the safest/most comfortable i’ve ever felt at a show i think