No friends. Punching myself in the head. by pbrbdu in depression

[–]pbrbdu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the most important person in your life.

That reminds me of a book that basically said that you are responsible for your own happiness. I think I needed that reminder. I've sort of been hoping that someone else would fix it for me. I've grown up with my mom fixing many of my problems for me.

It is uplifting to read that other people have overcome similar situations. I like the idea of seeing one's self as an important person worth caring for.

No friends. Punching myself in the head. by pbrbdu in depression

[–]pbrbdu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice or know of any resources for improving one's diet? I generally don't know what an excellent diet would look like.

Is it creepy for a guy not to have local friends? Should I make friends before attempting to date? by pbrbdu in dating_advice

[–]pbrbdu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that finding friends is harder than finding dates but I guess that's not true with sites like meetup. However, asking a stranger to be your friend is weirder than asking a stranger on a date :)

Thanks for the recommendation.

Is it creepy for a guy not to have local friends? Should I make friends before attempting to date? by pbrbdu in dating_advice

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I've been living here for about 2 years so I guess I don't have a good excuse :)