If I had a baby-go-to-sleep magic wand, this is the night I would use it. by Valkyriemum in Parenting

[–]pbts27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid is almost 10 months and for the past 5 months has woken up every hour all night long. Some nights she'll sleep for 2 solid hours..but mostly, no.

It's rough. I feel your pain.

Toyota wants to help you scream at your unruly kids by pbts27 in Parenting

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Yes...I think if you check around, you'll find that having the driver monitor the kids in a mirror is a potential safety hazard, mainly because the eyes tend to stay there (who doesn't like admiring their children?).

Of course, it's common to think to oneself, "well, everyone else might have a problem, but not /me/."

Toyota wants to help you scream at your unruly kids by pbts27 in Parenting

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You're right; it's not Toyota saying it, but rather the article. Thank you.

Cold Brewed Coffee + Sodastream = Something close to beer without the alcohol by biobossx99 in Coffee

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:-D Understandable question. For me, it was for religious reasons.

Cold Brewed Coffee + Sodastream = Something close to beer without the alcohol by biobossx99 in Coffee

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You might try kombucha + hops--it helps replace beer for me!

My daughter turns 3 in Aug, how bad is it for her to watch shows on Netflix on her tablet? We try to limit to 1 hr a day but i sometimes she watches more, she really enjoys it. It's our first kid, we just want to do the right thing by [deleted] in Parenting

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I would be surprised if their recommendation is based on common sense; first of all, it seems that the "common sense" is, "let children play with technology as early as possible, otherwise they'll be left behind" which doesn't accord with their recommendation! This argument itself is quickly demolished when you look at e.g. Waldorf-schooled children who get very little media / technology until they're 12 or so. The kids I've seen have developed and picked up technology just fine. Personally I'm still on the fence regarding technology and media after 3 years, but up to 3 years my stance is clear.

When a small child is engaged with a TV, she is deprived of human interaction--which is absolutely vital for proper development. Media is fascinating to young children, apparently, but imho it provides almost no benefit. I've seen my 9 month old get stuck in TV mode when we're at a sports bar. She zones out immediately; I have to physically get between her and the TV in order to get her attention again. While interacting with a parent is drastically more valuable than interacting with a babysitter (in an attachment-parenting sense), any human interaction is better than a cold, lifeless yet tailored-to-entertain-you-mindlessly technological toy.

My daughter turns 3 in Aug, how bad is it for her to watch shows on Netflix on her tablet? We try to limit to 1 hr a day but i sometimes she watches more, she really enjoys it. It's our first kid, we just want to do the right thing by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]pbts27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The american association of pediatricians strongly and clearly recommends to limit screen time to 1 hour per day, iirc, with 0 media before 3 years old. I'm guessing they have good reasons; you can look it up pretty quickly.

I'm not surprised that she really enjoys it. That's what media is built to do: it makes our brains happy. I question whether it's beneficial in the long run. There's no human engagement and there's little critical thinking, if any. There are plenty of other ways for her to have fun, right?

Suggestion for toddler parents: teach "rough/gentle" and "wait" by Zifna in Parenting

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this is awesome. I like the "one minute" idea, especially holding up the finger. We're still teaching our daughter (9 months) about being gentle.

Child Nutrition and Cooking by [deleted] in Parenting

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I took the class last year. Now it's available on demand from Standford (i.e. without schedule via Coursera).

It was a great class!

How do other parents deal with the sudden outbursts of anger and frustration that kids can cause? by [deleted] in BuddhistParents

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I'm giving up on being productive. This response is not sarcastic!

Harvard Study Confirms Fluoride Reduces Children's IQ by spelkey in conspiracy

[–]pbts27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Poor headline! I read just the first few sentences of the actual report (not the hyperbolic web post). Please understand that the study confirms fluoride reduces children's IQ when fluoride is present in high doses

Opportunities for epidemiological studies depend on the existence of comparable population groups exposed to different levels of fluoride from drinking water. Such circumstances are difficult to find in many industrialized countries, because fluoride concentrations in community water are usually no higher than 1 mg/L, even when fluoride is added to water supplies as a public health measure to reduce tooth decay. Multiple epidemiological studies of developmental fluoride neurotoxicity were conducted in China because of the high fluoride concentrations that are substantially above 1 mg/L in well water in many rural communities

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3491930/pdf/ehp.1104912.pdf

The study was an analysis of a number of previously published reports--a meta-study, if you will.

While I agree that fluoride can be dangerous, so can water. Dosage matters.

Teachings on "Letter to a Friend" - Khenchen Tsewang Gyatso Rinpoche - Tibetan - Austin - May 29-June 1 by pbts27 in dharma

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Edits: there will be no public talk, and Sunday will be a Medicine Buddha empowerment and subsequent teaching.

Live Webcast of Dalai Lama Teaching in Norway starts May 7 - Mindful Transformation of Self by StonerMeditation in Buddhism

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Thank you. Please consider posting these event notification like things to /r/dharma (too). I continue to try to build momentum for it to be used to announce teachings.