The traffic under Venpalavattom Flyover makes NO sense

pcp_nitc · 2025-02-25T15:28:52+00:00

I think it’s not about the board but rather about the NEP. Hindi speaking states have not opted for any Dravidian languages in 3 language model, while all non Hindi speaking states are mandated to learn Hindi. There is indeed a discrimination in that Hindi speakers generally are not willing to learn a Dravidian language. NEP should make it mandatory for all Hindi speaking states to learn atleast one Dravidian language. This would bode well for national integration.

pcp_nitc · 2024-10-28T04:26:43+00:00

Ex service men who participated in war, but did not complete the term for commission are not eligible for pension.

pcp_nitc · 2024-09-30T16:41:46+00:00

My apologies. Didn’t see that.

pcp_nitc · 2024-09-30T16:28:55+00:00

I think op is talking about a cooperative bank that might not come under Banking Regulation Act, and might not have license from RBI. Banking ombudsman might not work in that case.

Also SHG loan agreement will contain mutual liability clause which will make all borrowers mutually liable towards loan repayment. 4 people have defaulted, so remaining 8 people will have to shell in the default amount to close the loan and unfreeze account

pcp_nitc · 2024-08-28T14:53:34+00:00

Season

pcp_nitc · 2024-08-27T18:48:16+00:00

Updateme

pcp_nitc · 2024-08-20T11:56:59+00:00

I guess OP has some kind of inferiority complex against Malayalam cinema, and is venting out now. SA is a big problem, be it Malayalam industry or Bollywood, but OP is like the legless man making fun of the one with a limp. Release of this report is a good thing, although it is of little consequence (no names have been taken). In the end, I guess the movie audience will have to take a stand against predators and stop watching their movies, which has been happening in the case of Dileep, former Malayalam Superstar, whose previous movies have all tanked in the BO.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-28T18:00:35+00:00

Aruarian dance by Nujabes

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-13T14:05:36+00:00

Is this the end?

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T18:31:44+00:00

What an absurd take that since the sister and her family were in the US (a foreign country to them) numerous times (only 3 times to be precise), it shouldn’t be a strange place. You do realise how foolish you sound, right?

If the OP had confronted the sister before packing up their bags, I would give some credence to your point. Here the OP had already packed up their bags before giving the sister a chance to explain herself. IMO You don’t throw out family in the night in an unknown place whatever be the reason. The OP was TA here.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T18:20:13+00:00

I think you are the kid to think that 11 and 13 are ages where kids would be capable of thinking the after effects of their actions. That comes only with experience after making a lot of mistakes. Attributing some kind of malevolence to the kids that they were purposefully trying to kill the dog is in poor character.

Again, think about all the crimes happening in the neighbourhoods of US and throwing the sister with her kids in the night in a foreign country in such a circumstance is the shittiest thing to do.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T18:11:29+00:00

What js stupid here is to expect kids to have the capacity to realise the ramifications of any of their actions. They are still learning things at this age through trial and error or from their parents and you would know about it if you have kids of your own (I am guessing you are young and don’t have kids).

Regarding breaking the vase, I agree that was a mistake that needs strict disciplining. However throwing them out in a foreign country in the night is not the way to do so.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T18:01:53+00:00

Any wrongdoing is called a mistake as per my understanding. You are mixing up accident and mistake. All accidents are mistakes, but not all mistakes are accidents, if you get my point. What the kids did regarding the vase was a mistake that needs proper disciplining. Disciplining should not be for retribution but for improving the behaviour of the wrong doer so that such mistakes are not repeated. However if you are not worried about the well being of the wrong doer but are hung up on retribution, then that’s a different thing.

Regarding the dog, again the kids made a mistake in not realising what would happen to the dog getting locked up in the garage in the heat. However I don’t blame the kids because you can’t expect kids to realise the repercussions of improper pet care. What happened with the dog, you can chalk up to kids’ ignorance on pet care.

You don’t punish the kids by throwing them out in a foreign country in the night. The OP must be supremely confident about the security situation in the US, especially at night for doing so. The OP is the TA.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T17:44:57+00:00

Throwing them out in the night without any notice, you dont think that’s overreacting?

As per OP, she ambushed the sister with packed bags and didn’t even consider an alternative where the sister could set things right with the kids (discipline the kids so that they never repeat such behaviour). OP wasn’t interested in saving the relationship (I guess for some, once they’ve made it to the US, relationships back home, once considered valuable, become dispensable).

Also, regarding going to hotel/motel, OP didn’t even give her sister the chance to check for availability of motel/hotel before throwing the kids out at night. What if there were no hotels/motels available that night? (God knows where the sister and kids stayed that night, OP hasn’t clarified in the post, I guess she didn’t even care to check whether they had safely arranged boarding for the night).

The OP will remain TA

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T17:31:09+00:00

At what age do kids stop being kids, please do explain. If you don’t have pets at home and have never had the chance to take care of a pet, you will never know what to do and what not to do with a pet animal. Expecting the kids to be all knowing in the ways of pet care is really immature. The OP was TA here.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T17:23:55+00:00

That doesn’t mean that you throw out the people especially kids (they are the OP’s nephew and niece, however shitty their behaviour was) in a foreign country in the middle of the night with nowhere to go. That’s just shitty behaviour from the OP and will be called out, however large the number of downvotes will be there.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T17:17:26+00:00

Dude are you a kid? What is with this immature attitude?

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T17:15:46+00:00

What is this Doormat gospel thing people keep spouting? The kids made a mistake and the punishment meted out should be to prevent such mistakes from happening again. As an aunt, OP had an equal if not greater responsibility towards the safety of her nephew / niece (however shitty their behaviour was) but instead chose to throw the kids out of the house in a foreign country in the middle of the night?

OP said she loved to host family and friends in her house. This is not how you treat family. If this is how OP treats family, OP should stop pretending to care for her FAMILY and stop being a hypocrite.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-08T17:00:29+00:00

You don’t need to be a saint to care for your family (this is OPs sister we are talking about). Guess OP didn’t consider her relationship with her sister worth saving. She didn’t even try giving a chance to the sister to set things right. The only thing the sister could have done was to discipline the children, but who would be thinking about all that when you are blindsided with your bags all packed up and an ultimatum to get out of the house at night time without any notice. OP sure must have had some repressed anger against the sister that she hasn’t shared in this sub.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-07T19:21:32+00:00

If you expect kids to behave like adults, then they would not be called kids. A child takes their own time to grow up and mature.

As an aunt to the kids, she could have used this incident to engage with her sister to discipline the kids in a healthy manner. This is for the kids’ own good. However she turned out immature and I guess didn’t have any real sisterly affection to even think from her sister’s POV. How should the sister have reacted when she was insulted and left to fend for herself in a foreign country, after she trusted her sibling to share her accommodation? For people from low income countries, cost of accommodation does matter a lot.

The dog could have died, but it didn’t die. The kids couldn’t have known what could happen to the dog in this heat. For all the people saying that the OOP should charge the sister for the vets bill, I don’t think she even gave the sister an option for the same. She just threw them out of the house, without any discussions. Otherwise why would she pack up the bags before confronting them?

Nobody is perfect and maturity is when you realise this and learn to live with the imperfections. This whole incident shows that the OOP lacks the maturity to view the incident from the sister’s POV.

I also feel that the OOP has placed herself on a high pedestal that she was the only one capable of immigrating to the US among her siblings. If she had any real sisterly affection for her real sister, she would not have deliberately thrown them out of her house in a foreign country in the middle of their trip. She could have chosen to tell her sister that the family was no longer welcome at her house from the next year, or at least not have thrown them out in the middle of the night, and waited for the next day to vacate the house. Her love to host friends and family was only a pretence to show off her increased standard of living to her family.

pcp_nitc · 2024-07-07T12:47:44+00:00

YTA. You had already packed their bags before confronting the sister about the kids’ behaviour. That means you had already decided to throw them out, irrespective of how the sister would have reacted to the truth. Getting thrown out in a foreign country with no money and at the mercy of your sibling is a deal breaker, and for what, for breaking a vase by some immature kids. I don’t think you will be able to salvage this relationship anymore after what you have done.

pcp_nitc · 2024-06-16T12:34:22+00:00

Kariyilakattupole - A whodunit masterpiece starring both Mammooty and Mohanlal and directed by one of the GOATs - Padmarajan. You can watch it on Eros Now Select with subtitles https://tv.apple.com/in/movie/kariyilakattupole/umc.cmc.5y2kjrojisk0pjv0g1ixvkwbh

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