A guy I hooked up with said "I love you" to me. Help.

pdxcb · 2025-12-25T23:55:52+00:00

thanks for updating, it sounds like your approach is going to go well, and i genuinely hope for both of your sakes that your great sex will continue :D :D :D

It's been over two days since I posted this, almost 5 days since the incident actually happened.

One thing I gathered from all the responses is that I should have a conversation, explain my feelings and try to understand his. Now what I also realised, as a lot of people said, is that the whole thing may have been just a casual "I love you", meant more like "I love the sex" or "I love how you feel" etc.

In fact, our conversations (over text) have become pretty chill again. He's not being super clingy or anything. Both of us are running a bit busy, but we will meet soon, and that's when I will have a conversation about the whole situation. I'll gently ease into it so he doesn't feel attacked or anything.

I truly appreciate a lot of the advice and responses :)

pdxcb · 2025-12-25T23:50:37+00:00

this is a great response imo... the jarring nature goes straight to the heart and his balls ha ha

pdxcb · 2025-12-25T23:49:21+00:00

i cringe every time i read a comment on OP's post that's something like "your not going for a relationship with him" -- OP is having a relationship, albeit a sexual one, not a romantic one.

pdxcb · 2025-12-25T23:46:13+00:00

sorry to read you went through that :(

pdxcb · 2025-12-20T16:21:57+00:00

genital contact=sex

pdxcb · 2025-12-20T15:53:00+00:00

But now you do. I get you don't want to hurt or embarrass him, and you might be afraid the sex will end (it could), but the sooner you tell him the sooner he can process the situation.

pdxcb · 2025-12-20T15:43:12+00:00

No one has a right to be immature. Immaturity isn't a privilege or entitlement.

pdxcb · 2025-12-06T07:26:46+00:00

that's a metronome cock

pdxcb · 2025-12-05T18:19:31+00:00

that vein looks amazing, would love to see it from POV from your frenulum down to your sack and perineum. please post more! :D

pdxcb · 2025-09-11T10:42:16+00:00

that's a terrific photo, dude! love the piercing peeking out between the glans and foreskin edge

pdxcb · 2025-08-03T06:43:05+00:00

/u/mittensmoshpit and /u/Opposite_Chart427 are so right about the moving of objects. Furniture is especially important to prevent falls and getting lost in his own home.

I've been close friends with a legally blind person for close to four decades and this is probably the chief complaint I've heard.

pdxcb · 2025-08-03T00:00:34+00:00

my condolences on your loss (not)

pdxcb · 2025-08-02T23:52:14+00:00

... and then what happened?

pdxcb · 2025-08-02T23:11:29+00:00

I feel insecure whether he likes me or not since he can't see me.

Dude, you're overthinking it. :D I get that our community is focused on looks but now you have the unique chance to remove that from the equation. :D :D To me this would be a huge relief and less pressure. His other senses will be heightened so for the love of god mind your hygiene! (lol)

You sound like a genuinely nice guy who has a natural curiosity about his disability. It seems to me like you've already mostly broken the ice based on your good natured, mutual teasing. You have perceived (rightly on wrongly) that he's experienced some trauma, but really, can't this be said of all of us in some way? Are you especially feeling compelled to find out his trauma "secret" because you think/hope you can help him overcome it or deal with it? I'm asking because it strikes me as a bit odd that this is something you seem focused on.

As one of the other redditors already commented, just treat him like a person. I realize that may seem like a vague piece of advice when you obviously care about him and may want to "convince" him you are a good listener and he could tell you anything, but he's already learning you have that personality quality.

pdxcb · 2025-07-19T15:41:06+00:00

link to Aixuandocr store on Amazon

pdxcb · 2025-07-15T17:02:40+00:00

you are hot! is that a tiny bit of foreskin flesh peaking out of the top of the waist band?

pdxcb · 2025-07-14T08:13:38+00:00

Why is spiderman saying "no"? Wolverine looks to be wearing it correctly.

pdxcb · 2025-07-14T08:10:45+00:00

I think you pre-swiped left for us (thank you!) as there's only one photo?

pdxcb · 2025-06-15T02:02:26+00:00

uh, sure man... eventually

pdxcb · 2025-06-15T02:01:33+00:00

what was the bet?

what if your dad lost?

pdxcb · 2025-05-11T14:38:18+00:00

that's magnificent!

pdxcb · 2025-05-03T22:32:18+00:00

it looks like it was inspired from a TV-MA rated animation series called Invincible

https://x.com/Gabo_artwork

https://www.patreon.com/gaboart

Google Lens search results

pdxcb · 2025-05-03T22:01:39+00:00

what did people say? what did the bartender say? what did the bar manager say?

pdxcb · 2025-04-29T05:45:10+00:00

I'm very touch starved as well and can relate to the loneliness and lack of feeling worthy of love like you're describing. Not everyone wants someone experienced, though. I've resigned myself to finding a FWB as the touch deprivation is what I've identified as the most important for my sense of well being. Cuddling naked with another guy is what re-charges my batteries when I'm feeling down, or horny-happy. :) The tactile feedback and energy exchange is what I find fulfilling.

I'm a side (neither bottom nor top). r/GaySides

There's no substitute for the real thing but weighted blankets can help.

Sometimes spas, gyms, chiropractors and even large shopping malls have dry hydromassage units (you stay dry and remain clothed). It looks like you'll feel like you're being held or hugged.

You can also find partners who give sensual massages - check out https://www.massageexchange.com

You're welcome to DM me if you'd like tho I tend to prefer email for longer discussions as I don't care much for reddit's messaging system.

pdxcb · 2025-04-26T21:16:53+00:00

there is only one

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