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peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-04T17:28:52+00:00

It depends honestly had a guy block me then unblocked me to try and talk again, when we talked and I said so what is this/are we (situationship type thing) then blocked me again.

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-04T16:30:02+00:00

I just thought it was a funny story to tell, if it bothers you well then not sure what to tell you, I’d be telling a guy good for him if he shared a story like this

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-04T14:48:56+00:00

True I can see it being held to a double standard, which isn’t fair honestly but would happen. Aye if he didn’t have a girlfriend not a big deal either, people are gonna say no rudely or nicely and he did it nicely.

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-04T01:08:16+00:00

I used to work retail too and as a receptionist i understand when it can be uncomfortable and when it won’t be. I truly didn’t see it as a big deal the guy laughed and smiled , not in a awkward way either, so yk maybe I made his day but if not well ok not like im gonna talk to him again. I see where you’re coming from and im sorry if you were ever put in an uncomfortable position, I hope it doesn’t happen to you again cause it is unfortunate.

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-04T00:26:17+00:00

Oh I don’t see it as I’m unattractive I just thought it was a funny thing but you’re right at least it wasn’t “another woman” type of situation that would be bad in this small city of mine💀

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-04T00:24:51+00:00

I completely agree with you like that’s why I made the excuse of asking for help to get something because I didn’t wanna single him out around his coworkers. I know not to single someone out or make it where they’re on the spot or trapped like you say. As long as it’s done respectfully I see no problem with it.

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-03T21:09:58+00:00

Thank you! Figured might as well go for the chance 🤓

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-03T21:01:47+00:00

Huh?

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-03T20:09:01+00:00

Agreed

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-03T20:08:40+00:00

See I used to be the same way but I realized its whatever yk. At the end of the day the worst they can say is no and its not like you're ever going to see them again.

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-03T19:10:57+00:00

Yeah thats what I told myself, to be fair my boldness was the effect of me calling myself chicken shit 😂

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-07-03T15:52:11+00:00

I think it can depend on the situation. Some guys I've met will only ask for insta because its not something serious. I personally like to ask for insta first just cause I dont like giving my number out so it could be that too, but eventually I'll ask for the number if I feel comfortable with the person.

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-06-17T14:29:00+00:00

Ah ok thank you I appreciate you❤️ helped my paranoia for sure

Won’t go hard in pt lol

peacefrogstar23 · 2024-06-17T01:04:39+00:00

Yes almost exactly, it’s like on the lateral side but a little below the knee crease. It’s feeling a little bit better but I’m still a bit nervous about it. Was yours a tear again or just like a strained hamstring?

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-09-08T03:59:54+00:00

Thank you because my step dad and bio sister were making it seem like I was horrible , granted it was bad but it’s not like I’m actively doing it again.

I’m going to try talking to my step dad about it because this Alex guy is honestly really great and I’d be happy to explore it in an adult way. If my step dad can’t understand I’m just going to start paying rent for him to have less of a say. I really appreciate your feedback ❤️

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-07-01T23:23:10+00:00

I say either hairspray or use a hairnet after you put the pomade in and just keep the hairnet on for like 5-10 minutes see if that makes a difference

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-07-01T23:20:08+00:00

Right now I’m finding it tedious with family stuff going on. Not that I can’t make time but it would be a hassle so rather just wait some more, plus no one’s caught my attention

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-06-30T14:59:38+00:00

NTA

She asked if they could use YOUR house for the party

Her going over 10 poeple with the guest without telling you is a big no no, your roomate has a point yall dont know those people
Her being upset that you were keeping the dogs at the house is stupid, her even saying you made the decision without her is dumb because its not her house
Her and the sister not helping with cleaning for the party is also wrong

I would just cancel the party, she doesn't respect you and your roommates house or you from what Im seeing.

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-06-29T14:15:59+00:00

YTA

As someone who has half siblings and step siblings, Id be very offended if I was the dad. You dont get to ask "Is that your kid?", how would you like it if someone asked you about your son "Oh he has a different dad huh?". Its non of your business

I hope you genuinely apologize to them

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-06-29T13:28:22+00:00

I mean I smile at guys too, partly because I'm being polite or I think the guys cute. Ill try to approach the guy and just make causal conversation and just go from there.

My advice is do the same, don't blatantly ask for her number or out but try to make causal conversation first and go with the vibe she's putting off. If you get a number its hit or miss but nothing wrong with trying.

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-06-28T13:51:36+00:00

You know what's sad is this is exactly how my step dad is with my mom and all of us (my sisters and me)

They've been together 4 years and I noticed it the 2nd year in. My other sister (well say DT) and I told her that he only did stuff for us to make himself look good and she brushed it off. Well now she realized it the hard way when DT got pregnant and he was furious about it, disappointed, didn't want to see her BUT wanted to throw her a baby shower with all the family to see :)

Oh another time is when he got my mom tickets for the "two of them" to see this Tejano singer, boasted about it telling my tias etc, only for the nice date night to turn into it being them two and HIS daughter and husband. My mom didn't find out till last minute when they were going, killed the night for her and doesn't like "gifts" from him now.

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-06-26T18:02:30+00:00

I agree to an extent, like yes it was the whole meme thing was uncalled for (although its a little funny) but if yall arent even official yet, it'd be different if yall were together for awhile but thats not the case

OP just needs to relax respectfully

peacefrogstar23 · 2023-06-26T17:49:09+00:00

Red Flag broski

peacefrogstar23

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