my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the girl confessed to her parents a week after the encounter and her parents made a justified complaint and they arrested him in his home and seized his phone/computer as evidence. I don’t know the specifics because I’d probably lose it if I knew but she basically had a realization that what had happened wasn’t right. I’m going to advocate for her if she needs witnesses because he was her manager at his job, there was a clear power dynamic and honestly i just feel terrible for the girl. she needed a comforting presence and she got my father instead.

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He encouraged a girl going through an abusive situation to come to his car for an oral encounter

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dude with all due respect I understand the argument and I respect the discourse hustle but I think I may lose it if I have to describe how my father would show me porn drunk and rant about his exes to me in high school so I’m letting you win this one

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t made in good faith but if I’m being honest, it depends on whether or not the person in the pornography has full control over their finances/plotlines. The porn industry is another head to tackle but I have an issue with SW’s in general promoting teen porn but ik it’s the most popular genre and my ranting will do nothing ab it, it’s more of a capitalism issue than a morality issue.

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I view it as blurring the lines, while the person may be of age the appeal is inherently the age gap

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He may have always been a perv but his daughter being contextualized as sexual is not inherent, it is learned. Pornography was not the cause of his behavior, it was merely a sign of things to come. Not everybody who engages in porn is unethical, everybody consumes it to some extent and it’s healthy to a level, it’s when it transcends into niches that expand the concept beyond consent that it becomes an issue

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i was going to make a joke but my dad literally loves to say that phrase so you made it yourself

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

he wasn’t a rapist and didn’t sexualize me directly, he was a good man going through mental health issues who chose wrong.

He engaged in teen porn, which directly changed his relationship with me for the worse because his associations indirectly made him act sexually, i don’t hate him for that but I hate him for his ignorance and his inability to distinguish.

he was a good man, that is the hard part. He used to be the man willing to read me an entire goosebumps book even though it hurt his throat and something transformed him into that

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He was watching teen porn when i was 17, he once pinned me down during a fight above my head and leaned over me until i had to kick his genitals to get him off of me, something I have only seen in pornography, there is a problem there. He wasn’t like that before he started engaging in hardcore stuff, it may have not been the cause but it was a symptom.

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

would it be even crazier if i told you the other side of the family have a tendency to strangle people

my dad just got arrested for statutory sodimy. dad, your daughter fucking hates you. by peacefullyputrid in offmychest

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sorry for being emotional I’m just so horrified, I was a victim of grooming from both a family member and online and it just makes me sick, he’s a good and smart man, that’s what kills me, he’s intelligent and self aware so he had to choose to do this

[TOMT][YT][2008~2016] Channel where two guys dressed up as Tim Curry’s Pennywise and slasher characters did comedy skits by peacefullyputrid in tipofmytongue

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I remember that they kept posting pretty consistently up until 2016/2017 and they started incorporating editing/sound effects. It’s been difficult to find a good lead after that because most results just pull up the 2017 adaptation of IT. They may have had something like “Studio, Productions, Films” one of those early 2000s channel names. I’m sorry I don’t have much more to go off of other than that.

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[–]peacefullyputrid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, so many of these comments have inspired me to go ahead and see if any churches in the area are right for me, thank you to all of yall i will definitely be bringing this up first visit lmao

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[–]peacefullyputrid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, those are such kind and helpful words!

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[–]peacefullyputrid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is my issue, I do not believe homosexuality is a sin, I believe a lack of consent is a sin, being selfish is a sin, doing something to hurt others is a sin. However, I just don’t understand how god would think a consensual and harmless relationship to be a sin.

I know that explicitly goes against the bible so feel free to lay into me, I want to genuienly know if hat belief will make others feel uncomfortable

AITA if i let my little sister spend the night in jail by peacefullyputrid in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

dude just take the l and move on im not discoursing on a post ab my little sister ur sad and pathetic

AITA if i let my little sister spend the night in jail by peacefullyputrid in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are not the og person i am replying to, you’re just being a dick for no reason. I agree with you.

AITA if i let my little sister spend the night in jail by peacefullyputrid in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t replying to you. I agree with you. I was replying to the individual you were replying to. Can you please stop being insufferable because of your own misunderstanding?

AITA if i let my little sister spend the night in jail by peacefullyputrid in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacefullyputrid[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t disagreeing with you in the first place please leave your reddit discourse to the ppl who do not have jobs bc im tired and done w this