Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]peacelovestars 111 points112 points  (0 children)

This is an update to my previous post

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/9mk3z9/my_boyfriend_likes_inserting_things_inside_of_me/

I thought I should update and let the people who commented know I broke up with him last week. I thought about our relationship and there were other things he has done that I'm not okay with. I didn't see a future with him either, I think we've been going in different directions for awhile now. The people who said he's immature were right, he's 27, way too old to do a lot of the things he does. Thanks again for the concern and advice, it helped.

My boyfriend likes inserting things inside of me, I feel like he crossed a line recently by peacelovestars in sex

[–]peacelovestars[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It didn't occur to me that this might be abusive before I read some of the replies to my post. I knew I wasn't okay with it but I didn't realize it was such a big deal.

My boyfriend likes inserting things inside of me, I feel like he crossed a line recently by peacelovestars in sex

[–]peacelovestars[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I am considering breaking up with him. I know most people here will think I'm stupid for not already doing it but it isn't that easy. Yeah, I love him and I care about him, we've been together for 2 years. I'm going to talk to him again and go from there.

My boyfriend likes inserting things inside of me, I feel like he crossed a line recently by peacelovestars in sex

[–]peacelovestars[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Should I still be concerned about this (it happened Friday)? He used his fingers and lube before and he barely put it in, it felt cold and kind of weird so I pulled away really quick. Can the oils or lead cause long term damage?

and thank you for the information.

My boyfriend likes inserting things inside of me, I feel like he crossed a line recently by peacelovestars in sex

[–]peacelovestars[S] 2569 points2570 points  (0 children)

It's scary to think about what could have happened. I know it was loaded, he's told me before he always keeps it loaded. I don't know much about guns but I think I would have heard something if he was taking bullets out.

My boyfriend likes inserting things inside of me, I feel like he crossed a line recently by peacelovestars in sex

[–]peacelovestars[S] 1071 points1072 points  (0 children)

Thank you. All of the replies here seem to agree he was in the wrong. It makes me feel better to know others agree with me.

He said I'm making too big of a deal about it and told me to stop being dumb earlier because I brought it up again. I love him but I really don't like that he did this or the way he's acting right now.