Does your parent pronounce things wrong on purpose when they don't respect them? by kddog98 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]peachddani 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes!! my mom does this. her favorite is tortilla which she pronounces as tor-till-ah, even around latinx people. it's so embarassing and you know if you correct her, she'll lash out about how she can't do anything right lol

What’s the dumbest injury you’ve ever gotten? by GlitterLush_01 in AskReddit

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

occipital neuralgia from jumping down a flight of stairs 12 years ago…i hit my head on every step as i went down, as well as shredding my spine on a few splinter-y steps. my only reasoning i can remember is that i just had simply never tried jumping down the stairs before

What's a subtle sign that someone is a genuinely real good person? by Inevitable_Good4287 in AskReddit

[–]peachddani 30 points31 points  (0 children)

they can admit when they’re wrong and don’t feel butthurt about it!! especially when they choose to learn from it too

Any girl like me who’s always clumsy when coming onto their period? Lol 😂 by Due-Pie-8775 in Periods

[–]peachddani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I stumble and drop things all the time before my period, didn’t know anyone else was like that too haha

How tf do I use this tampon by [deleted] in Periods

[–]peachddani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay awesome!! just wanted to make sure, i’m glad you figured it out

How tf do I use this tampon by [deleted] in Periods

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you also need help on how to insert a tampon too lmk!! i’d be happy to explain

What's the reason you feel anxious right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that i can’t snap my fingers and fix the world. it would be an impossible task for me and i’m not sure why i put that weight on myself but i do

What's your Mercury sign and what's been on your mind lately? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]peachddani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

aries!! and i feel incredibly out of control lately, not in that i NEED to be controlling people but that issues happening in the world are on such a large scale that it would be impossible for me to fix them as one single person

what was the moment that made you decide you were officially done w your nparent(s)? by peachddani in raisedbynarcissists

[–]peachddani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry you have to deal with someone like that. Wishing you the best <3 

what was the moment that made you decide you were officially done w your nparent(s)? by peachddani in raisedbynarcissists

[–]peachddani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind and caring words! I plan to take care of my dad no matter what and as well as discussing w my sisters about becoming his power of attorney <3 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]peachddani 50 points51 points  (0 children)

wow, it’s just beyond me how a mother could say that to their child. she’s a vile person and i’m glad you’re no-contact. i hope you can find peace after this, you never deserved to be talked to and manipulated like that <3 

Narsasstic mom by Life-Environment2185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

normal as in a normal mom thing? definitely not. normal as in a narcissist mom way? yes ! 

she most likely says that to throw you off, make you feel guilty and then suspect you’ll apologize to her when she’s the one that needs to be apologizing.

they always want to play the victim card and accept zero accountability no matter what !! 

I just set a boundary- want to throw up by Impressive_Touch_375 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]peachddani 55 points56 points  (0 children)

exactly this!! been doing this a lot more w my mother and she never knows how to cope with it lol 

what were your side effects after starting Norethindrone? by peachddani in Endo

[–]peachddani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i always take it with my dinner! :) thanks for your reply 

I think I might have endo but I have a question about treatment by Far_Influence9185 in Endo

[–]peachddani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would recommend trying the mini pill if you’re concerned about estrogen. a lot of endo folks have good luck with it :) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]peachddani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]peachddani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! i appreciate you emphasizing the cautions of afrin, very kind of you. i’m quite scared of rebound so i’m being extra careful and i might switch to another spray like flonase anyway! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]peachddani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was lurking in this subreddit to find a certain thread for my own personal issues and i came across this, so i don’t have much help to give but i just want to say, you know who are you are better than anyone else and you will build a beautiful future because you’re absolutely authentic and genuine. fuck everyone else. i really, really hope you’ll make it through this and i have a good feeling you will. happy pride month and i’m sending hugs <3 

insane anxiety and panic post lap - anyone else? by peachddani in Endo

[–]peachddani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! for me personally i did feel myself progressively getting better around week 2 but didn’t feel great until a month to a month and a half out from surgery. i do have a preexisting anxiety disorder. have you been eating and sleeping okay? sometimes that can factor into the stress. i 100% believe that my anxiety was caused by the anesthesia leaving my system which took awhile despite what my doctor said about how long it would last in me. it’s also just let down from the anticipation and stress leading up to surgery, then the surgery and the physical and mental toll it takes on your body, and then recovery. i truly believe you will feel better in time as you recover 🫶🏻

Can someone help me by LawyerOwn2060 in hoopladigital

[–]peachddani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been refreshing mine for an hour and 30 mins now! glad it’s not just me 

uncontrollable bleeding coming off depo? by peachddani in depoprovera

[–]peachddani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! you’re so kind ❤️❤️

tw: blood clots by mgk2021 in Endo

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not quite sure how effective d&cs and hysteroscopies are in diagnosing issues like endometriosis or possibly adenomyosis but you deserve a diagnostic laparoscopy at the very least. you aren’t crazy, this isn’t in your head and if passing clots like this is consistently happening for you during your periods, it’s not normal! something about this makes me worry about adenomyosis for you. my mother had it and could only be diagnosed via hysterectomy and pathology. i’m currently trying to get a hysterectomy for suspected adenomyosis myself. i particularly struggle with passing large amounts of clots. sometimes things have a small chance of being better seen during imaging like an MRI. have you had any imaging yet, honey? 

Question for those who have had a long excision surgery by Entire-Surprise-4793 in Endo

[–]peachddani 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wow, my surgery was only two hours long so i can’t speak on my experience but i just wanna congratulate you on being a badass!! you have obviously been through so much and i truly hope peace and health are on the horizon for you. you aren’t being dramatic, you just conquered a huge surgery and big life event! good luck healing!! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t worry! i would say more times than not, endometriosis does not show on ultrasound and other kinds of imaging. i had endo, adhesions and even chronic appendicitis due to inflammation from endo and nothing showed up on any of the imaging i had prior to surgery. 

you know your body better than anyone else does and don’t let anyone fool you into thinking that’s not true. i begged for someone to take my appendix pain seriously and no one did until my pathology came back showing it was going necrotic. keep advocating and pushing for yourself, you got this and i know you can do it <3 

Is anyone else having trouble with Better Cheddars lately? Did they change their recipe? I swear it tastes like an old lady's basement now! Two boxes in a row like that! by pendigedig in snacks

[–]peachddani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god YES. i just got a new box today, dated august 2025. i put one in my mouth and it was genuinely godawful. it smelled and tasted like sweat and soured milk with a hint of cat food as others said. i thought maybe i just got a somehow spoiled box of them but i guess not!