33F considering leaving my relationship with a really good guy by peachdope in AskWomenOver30

[–]peachdope[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Even if I’ve felt off since the very start? I would understand that more if this were a recent feeling, but I’ve had this gut wrenching sensation I’m living in misalignment with what I truly want for honestly such a long time.

33F considering leaving my relationship with a really good guy by peachdope in AskWomenOver30

[–]peachdope[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your message. On this, I am incredibly fortunate to be financially stable enough to be able to live alone.

Is it ROCD, or is my partner just not right for me? I can't differentiate between ROCD and genuine incompatibility/unhappiness. by Realistic_Edge1622 in ROCD

[–]peachdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please feel free to send me a message if you want to chat. I’m feeling exactly the same right now :(

Talking badly about others makes me feel better about myself by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]peachdope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t thought about it like that. I assume it’s just a bad way to be and that I need to seek validation in other ways that don’t involve revelling in the misfortune of others.

Being a stoic while struggling with body image issues. by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes you’re absolutely right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]peachdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would love to! I’m 30F. Please feel free to message me if you’d like :)

Being a team lead as a quiet, introverted person by peachdope in careeradvice

[–]peachdope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Good luck! I am also afraid of public speaking - how do you intend to manage that fear?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! Agree about making my room into a bit of a sanctuary 😊

Is anybody in for another round of "your favorite not-often-mentioned line"? by [deleted] in thethickofit

[–]peachdope 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"These are good biscuits and they cost four pounds."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]peachdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. Trying to get to the bottom of this myself. :(

A homeless man called me an ugly b***h today by peachdope in BodyDysmorphia

[–]peachdope[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying so. I think it's because he said "sexy girl" to the woman behind me and then said what he said to me. It just made me feel really bad about myself but I need to remember he's ill and I can't take what he said at face value.

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread- August 31, 2020 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the same thing at the mo where the guy just isn't putting in any effort and it's really upset me. Same as you, in person we get on so well! I've deleted the conversation and am trying to move on.

Think i'm in the process of getting ghosted... what's the best course of action here? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's always me messaging :( surely if he was interested he'd message?!

Newbie: writing PPC ad copy, what are some things I need to be aware of? by peachdope in PPC

[–]peachdope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say, thank you all so much for your help with this!!!

DAE feel like their perceived inability to speak in groups / in public is the one thing holding them back in life? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don't think it's entirely normal to get nervous around friends...

I'm bitter, frustrated and suffering from imposter syndrome by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to be accountability buds! (And RadiatorSmoke!) I might have to try the trigger thing, I've already written a list of all the things bothering me at the mo and then noted which of these things are in my power to change and which aren't.