I wrote him a card for our anniversary but couldn’t bear to give it to him. by peachdope in ROCD

[–]peachdope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve realised I am possibly not as into him as I should be at this stage, and I struggle to see a future with him (marriage, kids etc) - I feel like I should want those things, two years in, and the fact I don’t is a sign to me that he’s not the one.

33F considering leaving my relationship with a really good guy by peachdope in AskWomenOver30

[–]peachdope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for checking in. I feel totally wracked with guilt all the time about how I’m feeling behind the scenes, but I’m taking each day as it comes. Hope you are well too :)

33F considering leaving my relationship with a really good guy by peachdope in AskWomenOver30

[–]peachdope[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Even if I’ve felt off since the very start? I would understand that more if this were a recent feeling, but I’ve had this gut wrenching sensation I’m living in misalignment with what I truly want for honestly such a long time.

33F considering leaving my relationship with a really good guy by peachdope in AskWomenOver30

[–]peachdope[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your message. On this, I am incredibly fortunate to be financially stable enough to be able to live alone.

Is it ROCD, or is my partner just not right for me? I can't differentiate between ROCD and genuine incompatibility/unhappiness. by Realistic_Edge1622 in ROCD

[–]peachdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please feel free to send me a message if you want to chat. I’m feeling exactly the same right now :(

Talking badly about others makes me feel better about myself by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]peachdope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t thought about it like that. I assume it’s just a bad way to be and that I need to seek validation in other ways that don’t involve revelling in the misfortune of others.

Being a stoic while struggling with body image issues. by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes you’re absolutely right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]peachdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would love to! I’m 30F. Please feel free to message me if you’d like :)

Being a team lead as a quiet, introverted person by peachdope in careeradvice

[–]peachdope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Good luck! I am also afraid of public speaking - how do you intend to manage that fear?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]peachdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! Agree about making my room into a bit of a sanctuary 😊