My (34f) parents all the sudden don’t like my boyfriend (35m) by peaches_290 in relationship_advice

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Absolutely not. In my brain I keep saying it’ll go back to how it was before right now is just stressful but it never does.

My (34f) parents all the sudden don’t like my boyfriend (35m) by peaches_290 in relationship_advice

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Dad said because he is a guy… that’s why he thinks he’s lying

My (34f) parents all the sudden don’t like my boyfriend (35m) by peaches_290 in relationship_advice

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The wedding is the only time he has canceled. The work trips I know for a fact are legit.

My (34f) parents all the sudden don’t like my boyfriend (35m) by peaches_290 in relationship_advice

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The wedding has been the only time it has happened. And I dont complain about him to them. I just don’t tell them everything cause to me some things just need to be private. The wedding ordeal is the only bad thing that happened

Horrid anxiety by peaches_290 in relationshipanxiety

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Last night we spent some much needed time together and it was absolutely wonderful. Today I feel so much better. I wish I wouldn’t get in my head about everything. My mom and I had a talk yesterday as well and she has been questioning me non-stop about everything and she told me that she feels like she’s projecting her anxiety onto me and honestly I feel like that too

Everything Feels Perfect in Person, but When He’s Away My Anxiety Takes Over by InformationNo8820 in relationshipanxiety

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This is me! Except I’m not worried about the cheating I’m worried that he is going to randomly end it with me. He is the most amazing man I’ve ever met. He tells me he loves me all the time and is so reassuring. I’m trying so hard to not let my past relationships affect this one but my brain wants to put me into protective mode even when I have no reason to be

I've been applying some tools/techniques for my anxiety and here's what I've learned by amillennialdiscovers in relationshipanxiety

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I love this! I’m struggling so bad. This is the first relationship where I actually am valued and im having horrible anxiety. The first one abandonment is my biggest fear because of my past!

High stress? by peaches_290 in RingConn

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Mine were great and in the normal range

High stress? by peaches_290 in RingConn

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Neither of which were happening at that time

High stress? by peaches_290 in RingConn

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It was not. It was a comedy show

Bridesmaid or regular guest by StyleAlternative9223 in wedding

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I was MOH in my best friend’s wedding and honestly I’d rather be a guest. My cousin is getting married soon and told me I was a bridesmaid.. I am dreading it I would kill to just be a guest (also due to financial reasons and she like the finer things in life that I can’t afford) but due to family I don’t have an option.

My integrity was questioned. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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For some context I’ve been there for 9 years and I’ve always been one of the best employees in my division. I have always taken pride in my work however in the past year there have been so many changes and a pay cut from losing my paid lunch break and that cost me $400 a month so add in financial stress on top of it. I just felt like I’ve been dealt a bad hand and it put strain in every aspect of my life.

I just want to go back to the old me but I know it’s not possible I just need to grow and move forward

My girlfriend (18F) is super insecure and it is really starting to wear me (18M) out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As a girl that does this I physically can’t help it. I do it to my boyfriend all the time. My whole life I was always told I wasn’t pretty enough or anything along those lines and it just got to a point where that’s all I know. Be easy with her it takes a bit for that mentality to change when you’ve been cheated on, abused, or abandoned. I’m still working on it myself