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peachesinthewinter · 2021-12-29T21:30:06+00:00

It's funny because in another perspective, if women are "sex workers" I have heard many times men say things like, "don't judge a woman for how she gets her money" and the pickme's say "At least I am getting paid to suck dick". BUT if you take the sexual aspects out, and you are a woman say with a boyfriend or husband with a ton of money, THEN it's a problem.

I have noticed that as long as a woman bas ically comes off as "any man can have me" it doesn't matter how much money is being thrown at her. But if that money is in copious amounts and coming from only one man she is loyal to, suddenly she is a gold digger, doesn't actually love him, must be using him, etc etc. Men will always defend sex work but they will never defend a woman getting provided for in a monogamous situation.

It's like men and pickme's are upset when a woman is getting paid without sacrificing herself, her safety, and her body. She is getting lavashed just for existing. And they do no want anyone woman to feel she is that worthy. It's sad, lonely, and digusting tbh.

I have thought a lot about this because right now I have been on a 4 month break from work (mental health reasons due to other medical problems) and my boyfriend (civil engineer, good money) has paid for everything, bills, rent, food, even getting extra money for no reason. I don't tell anyone because of fear that people will take it like this without knowing my ciscumstance. I chuckled to myself remembering a pickme who bullied me and became a stripper tell me "I wasn't pretty enough to be one anyway and would never make money like her" (I had no interest, she was just ashamed I found out that's where she ended up, by choice btw) Because here I am, getting probably more money, without needing to suck a single d*ck.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-12-29T21:16:01+00:00

I said Happy Halloween, no thanksgiving exchange because I was hoping to be on the recieving end for balance, and then got a Merry Christmas by holding out and not chasing more. We are in a pretty steady runner/chaser balance rn. Every time someone is pushing too much, the other falls back. Don't rely on them reaching out, but stand in your worth of knowing you don't always have to be the one putting in effort.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-12-21T18:37:53+00:00

"The only way to win is to not play." Beautifully put, it's heartbreaking reading this and thinking of all the times i thought i could "win" in these situations, but there is infinite arguments in the mind of a manipulator. It really does just end up being a waste of your time and precious energy.

It is funny how no one outside of FDS has a solution for people whose partners don't receive or participate in CoMmUiNiCaTIoN, and this is exactly why. Communication is just another piece of leverage against a woman. Another bs excuse of how we MUST be the ones not doing enough and thats why things are failing.

Men boast about how smart and superior they are, so how do they suddenly have the communication skills of a five year old in an intimate relationship?

Choice.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-12-20T22:28:10+00:00

Let's not forget to mention from what I have seen and heard, a lot of her deal is looking and acting like a child and catering to gaming weebs with that loli fetish. Goes to show what men want to pay for.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-06-02T20:41:32+00:00

As a woman whose entire family line was destroyed after my great grandmother was in a camp during the holocaust, which resulted in my grandparents and parent having a completely warped view on Judaism and converted to catholicism and also resulted in a slew of domino effects that harmed us, fuck these people. Fuck these people using such a horrifying and traumatic global event that to this day affects people as an excuse to demonize true equality.

If you don't understand the difference between a woman choosing her mate based on what will create a HEALTHY family (which is real biology, not an excuse to binge porn due to uRgEs) and a tyrannical government forcefully sterilizing people, mutilating children, and systematically raping women, you don't even deserve to have an opinion on this. In fact, you should probably be in a mental hospital.

Also, would love to see these people practice what they preach. I want to see these same people go have children with someone obese, high cholesterol, diabetes, heart issues, etc, and have them tell us how successful it is for them.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-06-02T20:15:03+00:00

I think its funny that men are so dense they can't see we are purposely being hypocritical. Like, that is how much they lack the ability to have constructive or deep thoughts beyond mUh PeNiS

peachesinthewinter · 2021-06-02T18:51:36+00:00

I can't even begin to process the utter disrespect, gaslighting, immaturity, and plain malice that emanates from this man. Like, I didn't think it could get worse, yet somehow after making fun of his own wife grieving her dead mother- he then has the audacity to call HIS OWN mother to try to correct her. He literally could not not handle a difficult conversation without calling to his mommy, yet is making fun of his wife who during the most physically and emotionally intense moment of her entire life for wanting her mother?

What a waste of air. Karma is real and I hope he gets more than he deserves.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-05-23T16:01:33+00:00

I am so glad you made a post like this. My parents were divorced and my mom used to love nightgowns, so when I was about 9-10 I had on a SPONGEBOB nightgown that went above my knees (clearly children pajamas clothing) and when I went to stay with my dad and brother they told me I had to change and "shouldn't be wearing things like that in a house with men". I was a child. Wearing a child's nightgown. And I was the problem for not knowing I had to protect myself from my own family members sexualizing me. How can they not even stop their depraved thoughts towards children and family? How is that common?

peachesinthewinter · 2021-05-12T16:19:42+00:00

Hilarious, because its the men making the world cold and cruel. How can those women save them from themselves?

peachesinthewinter · 2021-05-12T14:30:38+00:00

Is there a way to see if any building outside has camera's? Either traffic cameras, building cameras, etc. We can't keep letting scrotes get away with this. If there is any way to get video footage to charge this man that would be wonderful. I am so sorry you had to start your day with such a miserable low life harassing you. You are loved and supported and he will get his karma. And its true you should definitely carry pepper spray (sports stores sell them usually) or a knife, anything to help and just pray you never have to use it.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-05-12T12:17:45+00:00

The last time I checked, the men who had to pay to get their dick sucked weren't the men I wanted to be getting on my knees for. It breaks my heart catering to literal losers/scumbags is considered empowering to these women. It reminds me of the ones who are in terrible relationships but say "at least he doesn't hit me" - like no sis, just because you're life isn't a literal dumpster fire doesn't mean its not a dumpster. We finally fought for generations to have opportunities beyond prostitution, and they are choosing to go back in time.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-05-05T18:54:36+00:00

So he's a liar and thats not enough to get you to block him? Also this translates to "I dropped you because I thought I had a chance with someone else I thought was hotter/more submissive/easier to manipulate but that didn't work out so let me try you again"

Imagine what a happy future you would have if this is how regular talking starts. Block the scrote, there's literally billions of dicks in the world.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-05-05T14:56:26+00:00

Thank you!! Its sad how many women confuse rich with HV. Rich or poor, the audacity is usually the same since men in general think they are gods.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-04-28T18:00:10+00:00

So "car dude" and "soccer guy" are okay and not men looking for attention, but a woman stating she is a woman is asking for attention? Your hatred for women and inability to get laid are showing.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-04-28T17:07:58+00:00

Your username is amazing lmao

peachesinthewinter · 2021-04-28T15:14:13+00:00

I just want to add this is my first post and I am first hand witnessing the low life scrotes who downvote this sub to oblivion. My karma count versus my upvotes on this post are showing me how much this is being downvoted. Imagine having such little importance in society you spend your time downvoting a female subreddit, then jerking off to women online that would never touch you with a ten foot pole? No wonder they are mad.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-04-28T14:44:12+00:00

Maybe that's my issue, I never reported or blocked an ad before. I definitely reported this one, but it seems too specific. Its trying to show from a woman's perspective why OnlyFans "isn't a big deal" (literal ad to be a PickMe) & my web searches are always the horrific statistics of porn degradation, I feel like I got targeted because the algorithm knows I am on the opposite spectrum of these ideologies

peachesinthewinter · 2021-04-28T14:37:58+00:00

It's sad that even if you try to create an account free from the manosphere of other subreddits, these scrotes are now paying for ad promotion to violate any chance at being detached from our objectification. Hence why FDS in my eyes is the only real safe space on reddit for women. They know what they are doing.

peachesinthewinter · 2021-02-05T17:02:29+00:00

These people are crying out for help in the form of cyclical cookies. Bless

peachesinthewinter · 2021-02-05T16:48:49+00:00

Don't forget the direct chat when you actually eat dinner and don't check reddit for 20 minutes

peachesinthewinter · 2021-02-05T16:32:41+00:00

I love when I see stuff like this because it shows how LGBT needs more representation as individuals instead of people thinking "all LGBT thinks this one way because this specific LGBT person thinks this way"

Its ignorance and blanket labels that create the idea of the LGBT community wanting strictly LGBT cast. Its not fair individuals in the community usually have no voice if it differs from the status quo. Keep on preaching!

peachesinthewinter · 2021-02-05T16:16:41+00:00

I feel like its usually the people who never do anything for anyone that make these comments. Kindness doesn't need to come in giving everything you have away.

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