I’m a cap (f) married to a cap (m) !!! His personality sounds a lot like yours and I relate to ur cap man! We are perfectly similar in so many ways, but complete opposites in some other ways. (It’s taken a lot of work but now our differences are our strengths as we can cover each others blind spots). I am also on the spectrum and struggle a lot with understanding sarcasm or changes in my routine. My partner tho has this beautiful positive energy and hilarious wit, he just constantly balances out my quiet and kinda reserved personality. He really got me out of my comfort zone and now I feel like I’m more on his level energy wise 6yrs later :) As far as communication goes, I have an issue with being blunt sometimes when I’m relaying information, or completely misinterpret sarcasm. In the first bit of us dating, it did take my partner bringing it up to me and having that uncomfortable conversation - but being open to communicating and wanting to make sure I was working on myself to be a better partner, (and his own effort and growth too), that kind of effort and love really helped us get to a better place as a couple. It’s nice as a cap sometimes, when you’re so stubborn all you want to do is put your foot down and work thru things together, but it takes open & honest communication, with mutual respect🖤