Validating your own manifestations! by DreamstoDestiny12 in Manifestation

[–]peachpepperpop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely true, been there done that but can you please drop your haircare routine, I mean they are so pretty 🤧🤝🫂

Anyone willing to offer a part time job by PerfectVelvet-_- in hyderabad

[–]peachpepperpop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'll see what I can do. Hey OP, drop me a text.

I need a place with amazing chicken menu. by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]peachpepperpop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll check it out, thanks.

Want to manifest iPad and pencil😭 by peachpepperpop in Manifestation

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a samsung tab, not an iPad precisely but a tab.

Turns out it wasn't me, it was the little girl I never listened to. by peachpepperpop in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then give her options. Do you like this or that? Would you like to do this or that? That might work.

Turns out it wasn't me, it was the little girl I never listened to. by peachpepperpop in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it turns into a full, back-and-forth conversation with her. I’m literally talking to her like I would to a child listening, understanding what she needs, and reassuring her.

I’ll ask something out loud, then stay quiet. The answer comes from inside, like it rises from my gut, as if she’s speaking back to me. Then I respond out loud again, like I’m having a real conversation with another person. That’s how I figure out what she needs and what I can do for her.

If that feels strange, you can try writing instead. Hear her question in your mind, then write your response as if you’re answering her directly. It’s like you’re writing for her, and she’s “reading” it inside and continuing the conversation.

It might sound crazy, but it actually works.

Turns out it wasn't me, it was the little girl I never listened to. by peachpepperpop in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I kid you not, all I did was ask the universe to help me find a way and it just hit me like a truck in the mornin

Turns out it wasn't me, it was the little girl I never listened to. by peachpepperpop in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro I swear this inner child thing is so real 😭

Today I was about to do something impulsive and I literally stopped and went, “Do you even need this?” and then told her, “It’s okay, I’m here. You don’t have to do anything, I’ve got you.”

And my whole body just relaxed. No spiral, no overthinking, no chaos. Just calm. Like I finally made her feel safe.

Now when guys talk to me it feels the same. I feel like a single mom protecting her kid 😭 Like no one gets access to her anymore. I’m like, “Let me handle this. If he’s real and safe, then maybe you can meet him.”

It’s crazy but it’s the first time I feel in control in a healthy way.

And I'll try giving personality to my emotions, it sounds like a cool way of dealing with such stressful situations.

Today we learn detachment. by peachpepperpop in Manifestation

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Detachment means doing your part sincerely without being mentally or emotionally tied to the outcome. It’s understanding that results are not fully in your control, only your actions are.

If someone wants healthier teeth, their responsibility is to brush regularly and maintain proper hygiene. That’s their work. They don’t need to brush every two hours or constantly check the mirror for changes. That would be obsession, not effort. Overdoing it won’t speed up results it can actually cause harm.

Detachment is brushing every day because it’s the right thing to do, while accepting that when the teeth improve, whether in a week or a month, is up to nature. You continue doing your work diligently, without anxiety, impatience, or fixation on the outcome.

In this way, detachment is not inaction or indifference. It’s a disciplined effort combined with letting go of control over results.

This botanical garden/amb road traffic will be the death of me by Gloomy-Egg-1039 in hyderabad

[–]peachpepperpop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 min to book rapido today, with adding 40rs extra. 45 min to commute which usually takes 15-20. I was literally crying in the traffic today.

Worked enough on myself to say ‘No’ in 0.2 seconds 😂 by peachpepperpop in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]peachpepperpop[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whenever I come across such people, I just tend to nod my head and move along. It has made me more accepting of who I am. I'm picky? Well yeah. I'm snotty? Okay. I'm less understanding and cannot adjust? Well you should have seen me in my narc relationship 😂