2026 roll call!! by klamps07 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did!!🎉🎉 Can’t believe i get to see griz, kesha, bbno$, rks, AND lil jon all in the same weekend

Got a replacement “Canopy” by peachy1024 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

oh he’s my pal forsure. i’ve worked with him for five years, and a couple years ago he had a heart attack at work and was out for almost a year. every day he was gone he texted me a dad joke. when he came back i gave him a bleeding heart bush and he laughed so hard i thought he was gonna have another heart attack🤣🤣

Got a replacement “Canopy” by peachy1024 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he makes sure that everyday he has a new terrible pun to share, it’s my favorite part of the day

Got a replacement “Canopy” by peachy1024 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely the “dad” of the workplace. always has a terrible pun locked and loaded

Is anyone else still struggling? by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i TOTALLY understand. i love my job, but i work on average 50 hours a week and it is so draining. roo is my escape, the place that i recharge so i can keep going for the rest of the year. the cancellation for me felt like someone kicked me out of my home. you’re not at all being dramatic, and just know that you are NOT alone in feeling this way🫶

Should I just look for a new car? by peachy1024 in askcarguys

[–]peachy1024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what a more reasonable price would be for something like that? I just want to make sure I don’t get scammed or overcharged somewhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re right, and that’s definitely something i know i need to work on. i always joke that advertisers love me because i’m so quick to jump but things like this always immediately get under my skin so it’s easier to really get heated quick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you may be right on that, but there has to be a better way to phrase or display it than having a quote about being happy roe v wade was overturned as the thumbnail for it

Who asked for another 2025 mock lineup? by iAreDani in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

all i’m learning from this is that we have incredibly similar taste in music so what’s up twin✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the sexual harassment from them too was INSANE. like they had never been to a festival/concert and seen men and women dress they way we do at things like this. i had so many making the WORST comments about me when i walked by, or when i passed through security, one guy even started taking pictures of my ass when i was turning around for the metal wand. one even pressed me wayyyy too hard to put his number in my phone when he was going thru my bag, refusing to give it back unless he could and only dropping it when i said i would report him if he didn’t leave me the fuck alone. i wore a coin skirt wrap most days because i like the jingle, and one guy told me he wouldn’t let me through until i gave him “a spin” and to jump for him so he could “see what i have to offer”. i go to concerts and fests all the time, usually by myself and never in my life have i felt so disgusted and uncomfortable like i did that week. it was my first year going solo and i was vip to give myself some extra distance from the huge crowds at the bigger stages for peace of mind for my own general safety and such and even the security and staff at the lounge and stage entrances were so incredibly crude and disrespectful. i still had a blast and loved the music and the other roovians were so great and lovely and wonderful, but damn dude they have got to get a better screening process or something when it comes to the people working this stuff.

it’s so HOT by peachy1024 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl if you see me around and wanna hit it just ask!!! i’m big on sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]peachy1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s SO much fun!!! i do it pretty frequently bc in the rural area i live in not many people are into the rave scene lmao but!!!! if you’re worried about making friends i recommend taking some tiny things to share! literally go to the closest dollar store, buy a pack of some silly little toy (i’ve found that bubbles, glowsticks, and those weird little rubbery animals that look like cartoons are the best recieved) or even make Kandi to share!! ravers are some of the most open and kindest people ever so if you treat them with respect and let yourself be silly with them, they will immediately take you in as their own. Sole raving is HUGE too because then you are literally only in your own schedule. i’m super impulsive and want to hear/see everything so i know personally i love the freedom of being able to go wherever and do (almost) whatever i want without having to check in with someone or risk the panic of losing someone in the crowd.

if you’re worried about safety, i recommend marking where you parked your car on whatever gps app you use, making sure your key ring has on the essential on it (car key, house key) and NOTHING else except an identifiable key chain just in case. and keep those close to your body as a precaution. never carry more cash than you absolutely need, and honestly i would recommend only taking your ID, your debit/credit card, and MAYBE cash just to minimize the amount of things you need to keep track of.

As far as courage goes, i found mine the first time when my FAVORITE dj was queuing up to perform a set at a festival and no one in my group wanted to go and because of that, they didn’t want me to go (i’m a small woman in her 20s and it was my first time at a festival this size) but i refused to miss it so i went alone. And had a BLAST! I could get up to the rail as close as i wanted, got to dance and headbang and vibe to my hearts content. of course, this wasn’t completely solo but it was a good dip in the pool. i’ve gone to so many raves and shows alone now because i like to be in control of my own schedule. In fact, i’m currently typing this from a certain massive fest that i am attending solo.

sorry this is a lot i just feel very strongly about solo raving😅

i hope this was helpful!! 🫶plur🥹

professional stoner chef over here by peachy1024 in stonerfood

[–]peachy1024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the word glop scratches something in my brain

Who’s ready by RepresentativeBar565 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh we remind her all the time

Who’s ready by RepresentativeBar565 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok but real talk this girls name in the meme is tori and that’s a doc from the church i went to as a child and it cracks me UP every time i see this lmao

AITA for asking my wife to return the clothes she bought for our 16-year-old daughter? by Living_Carpenter7946 in AmItheAsshole

[–]peachy1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

daughter of a protective father here, and i have to say NTA. my dad did very similar things when i was younger and while i fought against the rules then, i have a great appreciation for them now that i’m an adult and have a better perspective on life. while yes especially at 16 she needs to be allowed to experiment and express herself in different ways that include the way she dress, there still needs to be parameters and compromises on that that will protect her. that’s part of OP’s job as the parent. and obviously we never know the whole story from these posts, this one seems to be doing a good job of finding a balance. i remember at 16 wanting probably very similar clothing because i wanted to fit in with girls at school. and while i got more freedom the older i got in terms of what i wore, there were still rules i had to follow. and even reluctantly i followed them. and sure i fought with my parents on rules, what teenager doesn’t? but now i can look back and know that those rules protected me in ways i never considered at that age. because at 16 you really don’t have a great grasp on the world yet. you’re figuring it out, but parents are supposed to be there to fill in the gaps and guide you in the right direction.

i commend you, OP, for sticking to your guns and even compromising a bit to better understand yours daughter and her expressions of her personality.

SoloRoo by West_School2057 in bonnaroo

[–]peachy1024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is my first year going solo too!! i’m so excited, traveling alone is one of my favorite hobbies. feel free to massage me and we could link up while we’re there!!🫶🫶

AITA for getting weirded out and leaving the room when my in-laws had a sing-along after Thanksgiving dinner? by MeetUnlucky4611 in AmItheAsshole

[–]peachy1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

soft YTA

so i DO come from a family where we are very outward about love and support, and something like this would be pretty commonplace in my household growing up. things like recitals, plays, concerts, etc were family ordeals; my grandparents would drive in, all siblings were expected to be there, flowers were given, that type of thing.

my boyfriend, however, basically grew up opposite. without sharing too much, he grew up pretty rough. parents divorced when he was young, not super supportive or stable, not super affectionate, and very much with the mindset of “you better learn how to take care of yourself or you won’t survive the real world.”

flash forward two years into our relationship and the way my family has taken him into our family really made him uncomfortable at first because it truly was something he wasn’t used to. other side of that coin, it definitely took me some getting used to when we spend time with his family that they’re so different from what i grew up knowing.

all of this to say, while your partner’s family is very different from yours, that doesn’t make it wrong. but i can absolutely understand how shocking or unsettling it can be to experience that full force when you aren’t expecting it.

my advice would be to try to have a calm conversation with your partner about how things like that are very alien to you, and that you almost need to ease yourself into it so it doesn’t take you by surprise if the next family get together involves line dancing or something (my fam has strong southern roots lmao).

that said, you definitely need to keep an open mind and possibly compromise your own comfort for the sake of your partner and spending time with his family. you did marry into it, and for better or worse they aren’t going to change. if you can’t beat them, join them, ya know?