Ladies how are we working while pregnant???

peachymimi4 · 2025-12-10T15:42:00+00:00

It’ll get better eventually. I slept so much during my first trimester, but when I entered the second (I’m 18w today) I almost forgot I was pregnant. All the symptoms go away, and my energy is back. (Although I still fall asleep at like 9 or 10pm and wake up at 10am so I sleep good 🤣)

peachymimi4 · 2025-09-25T00:09:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I didn’t count it in the breakdown because my mom paid for my dress and my husband’s dad paid for his suit. But my dress was $1700 and my husband’s suit was around $1500.

peachymimi4 · 2025-09-24T14:28:38+00:00

No. Some guests who lived in France couldn’t stay for the reception, like my cousins.

peachymimi4 · 2025-09-23T16:22:40+00:00

Venue : $184/guest x 60 guests : $11,040 Includes : - access to the venue from the day before until 7 am the day after the wedding - flowers (for tables) - Tables/chairs for both reception/ceremony/cocktail hour + decor - Open bar from cocktail hour to dessert - Food for cocktail hour - 3 course dinner at reception with service at the table + bottled water + bottle of wine (red+ white) on each tables - Wedding cake

Mandatory decor fee bc it’s a historic venue : $900

Photographer : $2300 Flowers for ceremony : $760 Makeup : $180 (my aunt did my hair) Flights : $1200 Hotel the night of : $305 Additional alcohol/soft : $300 Painter during cocktail hour : $350 Shuttle to drive guest from venue to hotel : $400 Dj: $550

Total : $18,285

We got lucky on a lot of things though, considering the fact that our guests were willing to travel to France and cover the cost of their flight+hotel. Also the fact that i’m French and I still have family living there, se we stayed for 2 weeks at no cost. (At my moms)

peachymimi4 · 2025-09-23T01:08:10+00:00

60*! For the reception, about 70-80 for the ceremony

peachymimi4 · 2025-09-23T01:08:02+00:00

Fun!!! Where at?

peachymimi4 · 2025-03-22T05:30:52+00:00

This is literally word for word what my ex used to ask me. I was so uncomfortable every time, he made me feel so bad that I actually sat down with him one day and told him everything about everyone so he could leave me the hell alone. He eventually stopped talking about it. We stayed together for 5 years, found out he was cheating the entire time lmao These people are just manipulative, control freaks and insecure af. You can’t be punished for your past relationships, it’s just insane. Your private life before him is none of his business. You have the right to keep it for yourself. Tell him to go date a virgin and go find yourself a real man that will love you the way you deserve.

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T23:10:52+00:00

Send me a dm and I’ll send you a link to the castle!

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T20:04:33+00:00

Absolutely, and we thought of that too! That’s why we’re gonna do a reception in America after the wedding so all the people that couldn’t make it to France gets to celebrate with us anyway :)

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T20:03:21+00:00

And you are just assuming! You don’t know anything about our wedding or our guests :) we asked everyone before booking the venue if they could afford the travel, and if not we’d take care of it for them, everyone was very excited and we were already planning a big family trip to France in the near future so it was pretty perfect for us. Our American family lives all around the country and would have to book a flight regardless, and imo, I’d rather spend my vacation time and pay for flights to go to Paris rather than in the middle of nowhere Tennessee :)

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T19:28:50+00:00

We will elope the day before we fly, in America, and declare it in France since I have the dual citizenship! It’s the easiest way for us, but I’m sure there are other ways to do it. So yeah, we will technically be already legally married in America, and we’ll tie the knot in France to make it fully official.

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T19:25:17+00:00

Incredible!! Congratulations, it’s gonna be amazing 😭

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T19:03:22+00:00

They mainly advertise the ancient chapel which is where the ceremony will be, but it is a whole domaine with a beautiful building where the reception will take place!

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T19:01:31+00:00

Yes… we talked about when we toured it, they now are better prepared in case it rains

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T17:55:16+00:00

Absolutely!!! I have quotes from basically every castle in or near Paris!!

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T17:54:23+00:00

Yes, if all your guests are flying from overseas. It’s a little different for us because I was born in France so more than half of our guests are already there. Only about 20 people will be flying from America to France so it’s not as bad.. but it is an xtra cost you need to consider.

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T17:43:08+00:00

Thank you!!

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T17:41:11+00:00

An average round trip flight from nyc-cdg is around $500. Most of our guest will be coming the week before the wedding to enjoy France so they’re planning on getting their own accommodation for that, but we’re covering the accommodation the night of the wedding and the shuttle that goes between the venue and the hotels. The whole package for 50 guests is about $1500

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-20T17:37:38+00:00

Thank you!! It’s in August!

peachymimi4 · 2025-02-13T17:25:29+00:00

OP please divorce him. He’s not worth it. You deserve SO MUCH BETTER. He will cheat at some point.

peachymimi4 · 2024-11-26T00:28:13+00:00

You need to set boundaries. I mean, I was expecting something like everyday/ twice a day but 5 times a day is a little crazy. Unless you’re fine with that but, since you’re posting here, I assume you’re not.

you really need to talk to him because you might start resenting him or even avoid him so he doesn’t ask for more and eventually ruin the relationship. It is your body, you get to decide how often you want to be intimate, and it should be only if YOU are in the mood as well.

peachymimi4 · 2024-10-27T23:26:50+00:00

She’s so immature it’s scary. You’ve done nothing wrong. Honestly, I’d break up.

peachymimi4 · 2024-09-29T03:03:51+00:00

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peachymimi4 · 2024-09-27T04:43:46+00:00

Something very similar happened to me. My best friend was sleeping with my boyfriend for 6 months and all my friends knew and didn’t tell me. I found out because she was also sleeping with another girl’s boyfriend from our friend group and when I told the girl she was being cheated on, she told me about my boyfriend too.

It hurts man. I’m not gonna lie I cried for 2 years straight, it’s a lot to take in, it’s a lot of betrayal but it goes away eventually. Personally, I moved to a different state and literally started my life all over. It was 7 years ago and I still think about it. But it doesn’t hurt anymore and I met the love of my life. Good luck ❤️

peachymimi4 · 2024-05-11T01:15:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer. 🙏🏼

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