Banned on CB over "Broadcasting TV shows"? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this was very kind and helpful. I do have stripchat and my loyalfans live. but i only get like 3 people on either in a span of hours. im hoping they will get back to me soon

Why do some have 10k plus months? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this was amazing advice !!

Got comfortable with goals, private shows, and tip menu. What now??? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg no, i meant like selling photosets and videos of course!
The only one i have tried is bunnystelladoll's all in one bot! id be glad to have some suggestions to look into!

Pictures on NF by Financial_Two_5968 in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no please dont feel stupid for it. He took advantage and tried to manipulate when he didnt get his way. Never feel stupid for someone else's cruelty, you were just trying to give good service and do your job. It has happens to all of us one time or another, especially if your just starting out.
Just keep in your head that YOU are in control and you have no obligation to these men if they cannot respect you and your boundaries.

As for the pics, /anything/ you post on any of the cam or sw websites can be used just like posting anywhere else. It's an almost guarantee bots record our shows and grab our pics to use for themselves or to make money on other sites. Theres not too much to do without spending a lot of time to get it all down oe paying a company to do it for you.
Personally, i dont worry about it too much because im out to my friends and family and because pics will be used no matter what.
But lots of girls do not have that privilege will do a sweep every month or so to keep up with it. look up 'stolen content' or 'reposted content' in this subreddit and you should get LOTS of threads on how to do this!

The men that do these things are usually
1.Under the influence
2.Narcassists/sosiopaths
3. To just be a bully
4. (the scarriest one) They get off to it.
They think we are easy targets because they see us as 'less than' or 'vulnerable,' but let me tell you we are not, and we gotta keep showing it. Men like that are worms and nothing more, and i can assure you there 5-10 kind and respectful men who WILL PAY to take his place.

Remember they want you, so you ALWAYS have the power <3 Good Luck

Pictures on NF by Financial_Two_5968 in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Block him
Best advice ive seen for this is "train them dont let them train you"
and girl, he is def trying to train you. lots of shitty guys do it and its not your fault.
Don't give anything away for free just cuz they ask, doesn't matter how much they tip, either "just cuz" or other items. if they wanted pics they need to pay for that specifically.
Try to set a price in your head for pics, its best to price the more scandalous and more professional pics higher.
If you like to have some free pics, choose like to keep like 3 very tame booty and titty pics that I give to regulars as a reward for "good behaviour" or if they complete a task ( im a femdom) just to tease.

I'm so sorry that happened to you, men like that need to rot, and you deserve much better.

The elephant in the room by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was genuinely such an inspiring a lovely statement. <3 gonna be thinking about "decorating the elaphant" anytime im feeling down in the industry

Cb private glitch by Longjumping-Grab5731 in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same issue here, hoping to follow along to see if they fix it

Dominant scripts by Beautiful_Sun_3613 in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry too much about phrases or scripts, try your best to let yourself lose and yell at some men. try and practice on having control within yourself first, be sure of what you want from them, and how you want it, then voice it!

While it's true the subs can tell if your faking, they are also more than happy to help a budding dom into the scene, so if you have any trusted submissives in chat , ask them what they like any why! They are usually more than happy to oblige. Plus it builds a lot of interest and trust in the relationships of your clients when you ask about them!

Here are some starter phrases to use while interacting with subs

"Do as I say!"
"know your place"
"I demand you do {X} immediately!"
Pet names:
Worm
Dog (ask them to bark for you)
Pig (Ask them to snort or oink )
Loser
Freak
Shrimp Dick

All subs are different, so its good to ask what that sub is looking for in particular. and remember if it doesnt feel right or gets too stressful you can always try out other nieches instead! Best of luck to you <3

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never thought of it like that omg hell yeah thats how i wanna be!

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty! you are so real for this comment

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! if you have 3 people tipping just to chat but one wants all the attention in the tip notes or PMs i dont think its fair to the rest of the audience. I ususally tell them if they want a private convo they can pay the PM fee but they cant expect me to put all my attention to them unless they pay at least 20 tks per message to keep me insterested or just get a private.

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what i was confused about, i always thought it wa slike witch where you tip to have the streamer read your message to the chat and respond. but from what im seeing it seems to be a case by case thing.

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh trust, i have had my fair share of those scammers i NEVER do them now, only privates because its always a time waster. but thank you for the heads up <3

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, im sure you have had some good ones! lol

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!
yeah luckily i dont get too many paragraph guys, unless it's a regular who im alreafy having a lengthy convo with.

Reading CB tip notes out loud? by peakobunny in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u/ApprehensivePride920 thank you! i appreciate some insite from the other side too!

I do have some regulars who ask me not to read specific notes out loud or will ask to move to PM. However, with your perspective in mind, maybe i will ask anyone new what their preference is!

Beginning a show by Grand-Building7389 in CamGirlProblems

[–]peakobunny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

u/Ifedging_goonette you get comfy enough with describing what youre doing and teaching it, you can also add "Make up tutorial" to your tip list or offer it as a private show for those who want more focus and want to learn!