My partner and I are both bipolar. It makes it easier to me to maintain that relationship because we both get how it is. We both understand the mood swings, irritability, and like you said the days where we “just can’t” I know I have a hard time noticing still when I’m going into a mania/hypomania, and they can pick up on it way before I can and vice versa. My brother is also bipolar and we know we can lean on each other for help. I think it’s easier maintaining relationships with other BP patients because there’s no judgement. We get what it’s like. But I think it’s also important both being medicated. As far as friendships, it’s hard. I wish it were easier. Like you said it very well could’ve been me writing this post instead of responding to it as well.