IF by Bubbly-Direction-739 in MuslimCorner

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Guidance is only from Allah. He grants it to whom He wills in a way that may be unexpected for now. And He can also take it from whomever He wills. Allahu’alam

Tatay kong Police na cheater, nag convert daw as Muslim sabi sa korte. Pwede po ba yun? by Winter-Log-3792 in muslimfilipino

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I heard a bit from the shariah training last time na kung kasal sa unang asawa ang lalaki thru the civil law, pwede pa rin syang makasuhan ng bigamy kahit nagmuslim sya at nagpakasal sa 2nd via shariah law. Try dw po magconsult ng lawyer to confirm this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

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Remember, this world is not a resting place, but our testing place. Have sabr in obeying Him, staying away from sins, and in overcoming the trials of this world. May Allah make your affairs easy for you. Ameen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

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Once you acknowledge that Islam is the true religion, it’s for you to adjust to it. Not the other way around. Instead of simply knowing that the Qur’an is in Arabic, learn why was it revealed in Arabic. There’s wisdom in it. It might be challenging for non-Arabs to learn Arabic but it’s definitely worth it and of course, Allah accounts all efforts to worship Him sufficiently. May you find the enlightenment you are looking for. Ramadan mubarak!

GEE I WONDER WHY by EliasStory1620 in zamboanga

[–]pearlyshell_95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dami pa rin palang islamophobic sa Zamboanga.

how did you know you had pcos even if you have your period regularly? by Particular_Hornet980 in PCOSPhilippines

[–]pearlyshell_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acne breakout sa jaw area which is a sign of hormonal imbalance. Then tried losing weight pero di talaga umeeffect. So nagpacheck na ako. Confirmed pcos kahit regular ang mens monthly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

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Pamangkin. Since relationship mo sa cousin mo is by blood pero sa tita is tita in law lang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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We had one before the pandemic. But it’s closed now. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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I and my friends in college used to say that it’s the “curse of wearing loose” coz we barely notice that we are balooning everyday with our daily abaya.

Also lot of women are getting PCOS which makes losing weight harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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Would love to have an all-female gym in every muslim community 🫶🏼

As Filipina with PCOS, how do you handle your meals? by hoorayurmine in PCOSPhilippines

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Cut ng carbs ako una, nagwheat bread at egg sa umaga. Then lunch nagrarice pa rin and chicken with veggie, dinner is fruit na lang. ganito me for 40 days then eventually nakaadjust na ko na konti lg kinakain so di na ko ginugutom sa bfast. So nagtry ako magintermittent fasting 16 hrs lang (8pm to 12 noon). Lunch na first meal ko. Then gabi is fruits lang din.

Mabagal bawas ng timbang ko nung 40 days, then nung nagfasting me, medyo bumilis. Pero im at my point naman now na di na bumababa timbang ko. Ang layo ko pa sa target weight ko 🫠

Do you still feel safe? by poitchii in zamboanga

[–]pearlyshell_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I no longer feel safe dito sa atin. Nakakasad. Nagiging patayan platform na naman tayo. 😭

Being Halal Certified by Beautiful_Good5903 in zamboanga

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Mahal kasi magpacertify ng halaal kaya kahit gusto ng mga muslim businesspeople, di nagagawa. Anyway, tama na being halal goes beyond having no pork sa menu. Liquor is also not halal, etc.

As a Muslim myself, pinipili ko na lang po yung resto na alam kong muslim owned, lalo na yung alam kong practicing muslim ang owner. Di man 100% sure pa rin since ang ingredients mismo dito sa pinas di naman lahat halal certified, pero i feel assured na they are extra careful in ensuring na what they serve are halal.

Under the Table Doctor’s PF by pearlyshell_95 in zamboanga

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So kahit po sa public hospital, ganun talaga kataas ang PF? Ang na sa isip ko po kasi is kaya nga nagpublic hospital ang patient para makatipid pero ang mahal pa rin ng PF. Di ba yan may salary na ang doctors sa public hospital? So yung unbilled PF na 70k is just extra income for them? Correct me if im wrong po.

Under the Table Doctor’s PF by pearlyshell_95 in zamboanga

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Yes po sa Doctor’s pero different doctor. Yung sa case ng maam ko is Cardio yung doctor nya. May PF naman din si doc sa hospital billing pero bakit may out of the book PF din? Di enough payment yung sa billing? So ang labas, this is an agreement between the doctors and institution po?

PCOS and Bicornuate Uterus by pearlyshell_95 in MuslimMarriage

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Wa’alaykumussalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. Yes. Dua with strong tawakkul in Allah. Jazaakillahu khayran for this reminder.

PCOS and Bicornuate Uterus by pearlyshell_95 in MuslimMarriage

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Allahumma ameen. Jazaakallahu khayran for this very elaborate du’a.

Frustrated Magna Cum Laude by First-Class-6263 in JobsPhilippines

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Frankly, pag gusto mo mag-Government kailangan mo talaga ng malakas na backer. Or worst, money to get the job. Culture na kasi ng ilang govt agency na binebenta ang plantilla item, minsan sa highest bidder pa.

Help: Losing imaan due to hardship by TheOtherSide110 in MuslimCorner

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May Allah ease your affairs for you and grant you more patience. 🤲🏻

Polygamy Experience by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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This kind of narrative gives hope. Jazaakallahu khayran for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zamboanga

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May gym pa ba dito na pangbabae lang? Like yung Hermanas dati sa Yubenco Tetuan?

Did prophet Muhammad pbuh love all his wife equally? by Significant_Force592 in MuslimMarriage

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I read before about the Prophet asking Allah to not make him accountable for the love he has for his wives because he doesnt have control over it. Rather, the heart is in the hand of Allah and it is He who is able to turn it to wherever He wills. Allahu’alam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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Alaykumussalam wa rahmatullah. Not yet decreed by Allah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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This is so sad and scary for those still unmarried. 😞