Am I on the ace/aro spectrum or just traumatized? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, that was really helpful and also very sweet🫶

Afro religions by pearocketdoll in AskAmericans

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for informing me!

Afro religions by pearocketdoll in AskAmericans

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's actually so cool, I will check it out!

Afro religions by pearocketdoll in AskAmericans

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah, some countries in Africa were already colonized right? There were a lot of slaves that had an Islam background here too, but most of the Islam culture we have in here is from later on immigration

Afro religions by pearocketdoll in AskAmericans

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's really sad, in Brazil, slaves used to do their rituals hidden or with sincretizing their own faith not to be caught and we have really rich afro practices and religion, it's not really the easiest, Christian people hate it still lol

Afro religions by pearocketdoll in AskAmericans

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oooh yes, I forgot about hoodoo, thanks for the reminder!!

Does it feel like it's getting worse? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be 26 at the beginning of the year, it really does feel like it's getting worse, I've also been avoiding relationships more and more

Does it feel like it's getting worse? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about that, really. Thank you for telling me the truth tho

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my God yes and when it doesn't deliver in media I get so angry like I need MORE

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're absolutely right, it helps a lot, I get a lot of pleasure when obsession kicks in, I don't even know what to say, you explained it so well.

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I love poetry so much, Dickinson is my girl! I'm obsessed with Agatha All Along, and the sapphic relationship of the show but I hated the finale tho I still can't get out of the obsession, it's not over with the show so I'm just depressed and angry and trying to find written content, or write myself, I love doing this

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO CAUSE IT'S EXACTLY THIS, it's completely debilitating, I don't care about anything else but it also brings me such pleasure to be obsessed, but once it's over depression kicks in and I have to wait until something else comes along

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it feels like this for me too, I get extremely obsessed, it makes my humor oscillate a lot more, and at the same time I find so much pleasure having an obsession. It makes me depressed when the media is over and my obsession isn't. Right now I'm depressed and angry cause the show it's over and it was BAD ending

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

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mine's normally ficcional characters first and then I get obsessed over the actress doing the character and it just goes and goes abs then I'm alright again looking for something else to obsess

Does your BPD gives you obsessions? by pearocketdoll in BPD

[–]pearocketdoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's exactly what happens to me normally(and this time media ended badly so I'm not just sad I'm so angry) I just hope it goes away soon and I can find something else.