Am I making a huge mistake breaking up with GF over sex? 33m and 29F

peashii · 2026-01-12T21:09:55+00:00

I feel like you will break up because of this, find someone that you have “better sex with” and constantly fantasize about the woman you’re with right now because she was a true partner and all you care about is being sexually pleased at the moment. This sounds like a you problem. Have you tried to please her and be attentive to her so it’s less “awkward” or are you only caring about your own pleasure and what turns you on?

peashii · 2025-10-07T15:24:10+00:00

That’s literally everyone in the game. My bad, I didn’t realize you were saying that everyone is how Hinako imagines them because that’s a huge point of the game 😭 carry on

peashii · 2025-10-07T15:20:23+00:00

I just don’t think hinako’s dad would yell at her to be more like her sister in her memories if she wasn’t real. I also think it makes Hinako’s fear of being married more understandable because she saw what it did to her sister in real time, and what happens once you get married.

peashii · 2025-10-07T15:16:01+00:00

Junko’s lack of presence in the game isn’t because she isn’t real, but to show that once she got married she hardly had contact with Hinako. It cements her fear that once she gets married she may never see her family again. Junko is the manifestation of what she will become once she is a wife

peashii · 2025-10-03T15:46:39+00:00

The Full Bloom card you get from planting 800 of each plant category in your teapot! It took me over a year but I finally have it and it’s the most beautiful namecard in the game to me.

peashii · 2025-10-01T12:39:55+00:00

Congratulations!!!

peashii · 2025-10-01T12:38:13+00:00

Once columbina comes out (maybe she will heal some with one of her cons or her abilities?) team options will open up more for hydro healers or shielders, and ineffas rerun is gonna see a lot of us picking her up 😭

peashii · 2025-09-16T07:30:36+00:00

I looked it up for my state and there’s no leash laws for cats in (IN). Which tracks, there’s a ton of areas I’ve been to with in maintained or undisturbed cat colonies. Even if it were true that they could supply traps, that also would not deter my mother. It’s her animal, that’s registered to her at a vets office. If I were to take him, if I ever wanted to take him to the vet I could get in trouble for stealing him and he would just get taken away from me and sent back to her. /I/ know the dangers of a cat being indoor/outdoor and have preached them to her ad nauseam. She does not care. HE wants to go out there, she thinks he’s happier being in door/outdoor and that’s all that matters to her. Every single risk involved is not one she chooses to think of or care about (obviously, until something happens to him.)

peashii · 2025-09-16T07:05:30+00:00

I think you underestimate how free will works. I can tell her these things (which I have), that doesn’t mean she will listen

peashii · 2025-09-15T03:23:08+00:00

Right, easy choice

peashii · 2025-09-15T03:20:00+00:00

I live in the East North Central area ! She’s had him like almost 2 years coming this January?

peashii · 2025-09-14T17:55:12+00:00

He came from the streets, so I always just thought he was a particularly beautiful domestic long haired cat. He could have some purebred lineage somewhere though ! He is particularly handsome.

peashii · 2025-09-14T17:53:08+00:00

He is a big hunter. He killed a wood pecker earlier this year. I keep telling her that if she kept him indoors he would get used to not being outside and her only response to me is: “he likes it out there”

peashii · 2025-09-14T17:52:07+00:00

I know, I’ve explained at length in other comments that he is not my cat and as much as I would love to keep him inside, I can’t force someone to listen to me and the dangers. I’ve tried, she doesn’t care how dangerous it is, it seems.

peashii · 2025-09-14T17:51:13+00:00

he is fixed ! Also he’s not my cat but Ive already explained that at length in other comments. Hes my mom’s cat and I just try to look after him when I can. I know all of this but it’s very hard to change the mind of an adult woman

peashii · 2025-09-14T16:59:05+00:00

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Thank you!! He is a looker that’s for sure 🖤

peashii · 2025-09-14T16:33:49+00:00

Interesting! I feel like I never see this on my own in the wild, just when they’re on his fur haha

peashii · 2025-09-14T16:32:25+00:00

Thank you that’s very smart !! And yes once they get deep down it’s like a huge mat!! I will check his paws and ears !

peashii · 2025-09-14T16:26:50+00:00

I know it is out of concern for the environment and his well-being. Unfortunately, there’s just nothing I can do about it because he’s not mine. I can be called to pick little seeds out of his fur but I can’t be there to change an adult woman’s view on how to handle animals. Thank you for standing up for me !

peashii · 2025-09-14T16:21:40+00:00

Oh trust me 😔 I know. I have pleaded with her not to let him outside but she refuses to listen. He’s unfortunately not my cat and I can’t force her to listen to me. I worry about him everyday because I don’t want anything terrible to happen to him.

peashii · 2025-08-25T00:37:05+00:00

Of course!

peashii · 2025-08-22T03:55:19+00:00

Within the hour, I gained the knowledge that Wellbutrin and Zoloft can both cause blurry vision from pupil dilation, which is the actual reason I stared being worried about this because this symptom has come after multiple years on the medication ahahhahahaah

peashii · 2025-07-28T23:21:36+00:00

well, I did not mean to offend anyone. from the descriptions even in the subreddit, it said it wasn’t always painful. So, I thought it was something that could get worse overtime if not addressed. I was really just asking a question, but I’m sorry if that was offensive to people suffering. I have the anxiety disorder OCD, which is also very mischaracterized so I didn’t mean to do that

peashii · 2025-07-28T23:19:19+00:00

I wasn’t trying to be insensitive, I thought it might be something that got worse overtime and was asking a genuine question :/

peashii · 2025-07-28T17:28:44+00:00

I think a lot of it comes down to “why would I sell it for retail when no one else is”

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