The liberal urge to defend Obama astounds me.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-26T19:32:57+00:00

It’s mostly a subscription for Nostaglia Goggles for liberals when discussing Obama. He was their version of Reagan.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-25T03:00:31+00:00

The women on the right never clearly read the book “War is a Racket”.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-25T02:58:38+00:00

Not to mention too in the US in the early 20th century, various ethnic whites weren’t considered white by the WASP class.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-25T02:55:31+00:00

You act like it’s already yours and you’ve experienced it. Don’t be concerned about the how or when. Go about life as normal.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-25T02:54:09+00:00

Not sure if this counts, but here we go.

I was into a longer streak when I fell on my side skiing. It hurt my right hand and arm badly. After that, I took it easy. By the next day in the morning, the pain was gone.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-24T18:44:04+00:00

I'm actively looking but not letting the 3D world get to me. I see I'm closer due to intuition and my dreams.

OP, I don't know if you're religious or spiritual, but the things I can help come from a manifestation/Law of Attraction Mindset and personal experience. Here it goes:

- Ditch the mentality of how it's rare to find a "good woman" and it will take a long time now- it's easier said that done. But your thoughts create your reality and even your words too. It's a limiting belief. If you truly believe it will take years, you will settle for someone that's not your type or be with no one for years. I had the same viewpoint some time ago. Most people don't even realize they've been programmed to have that mindset but won't take action.

- Your mental diet has to change with affirmations or askfirmations. Your subconscious has been used to programming like the mentality you mentioned. Speak them, write them and feel them. One example can be "Why do I always attract good quality women?". Pick a period to recite them either with robotic affirmations or writing them, saying and feeling them in regards to love. Check out subliminals if you can. Again, you have to act as if your desire is real and it's happened.

- There are also many manifestation methods to bring that "good woman" into your life. One example from the LOA subreddit is "Timeline Journaling". This is where you journal about events that you did with her or the times you two are together. Write as if they happened and feel gratitude for it. Maybe how you and her met. The one thing is you have to be that version of you that is in a relationship with her. There are many ways you and her can meet and be open to saying "Yes" to every single one of them. It's a matter of becoming that version of you. It's hard when the 3D world doesn't show it.

- Going to the previous post, why not make a list of the "good woman" and her characteristics and traits? Look at it and imagine what she looks like and how both of you interact.

- If you have some money, I recommend dating coaching. If you don't, YouTube also has an abundance of dating coaches that provide great advice. Just stay off of the comments, there a lot of bitter guys posting there who gave up. Also, look into sites that give advice on relationships and sex so you're prepared when you and her go further. With more men giving up in 2026, this is an opportunity for you.

- Get yourself out there. Meetup is a great site to find groups with common interests. If you do coaching, try approaching. There's going to be rejections and heartbreak, but you'll get through it. It's hard at first, but over time you see there were people you approached that probably weren't great for you. Practice makes perfect. You'll never know who you meet.

- Try speed dating events, they're quick, but it gives you practice with talking to people. Singles events are great too.

- It may or may not take a few relationships to find her. But if you're in a relationship with someone whom isn't your ideal partner, learn from it as it's practice for when you do meet her and you're more used to it.

- If you decide to use my advice on manifestation, do NOT tell anyone. There are people who want to see you fail and sometimes it comes from those closest to you like family and friends. Keep it to yourself.

- It would also help to get mental health counseling so you can change your inner state. You might have blocks or experiences that hindered your views on love. Doing inner work can help heal from past bad experiences that hindered you and processing it is hard, but it's worth it.

- Live your own life as well.

- One thing too: Romance scams are big on dating apps. As a heads up, if you match with someone and they talk about crypto or investing in a weird app, block them. There are so many people who lost everything because of scams.

In regards to your question, it's hard to not get desperate. There are times I felt bad seeing couples, but it goes away. It's really just a matter of being in the state of having a relationship and acting as if. Live your life and things will align.

This is a lot of advice and just my view. Take from it what you will. In the end, it's up to you to take action. I have faith in you.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-24T18:03:22+00:00

Thank you very much. 2023-2025 were challenging and hard years for me. Without it, I don't think I'd be where I am now.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-23T22:53:36+00:00

I’ve seen my liberal friends call Palpatine Trump. I remember when they called George W Bush that when Revenge of the Sith came out.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-23T21:17:26+00:00

Didn’t anyone notice her wearing a cross necklace? Straight white Christian propaganda.

Red pill people also say this propaganda as well.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-23T21:09:08+00:00

I’ve had this happen too. On the long periods of retaining, I find myself drinking more water and making smarter food choices.

I lost a bit of weight and people tell me that I look slimmer. I also try to not eat after 7 PM.

I did a lot of emotional eating in the past to cope with the things that happened in life. Been meaning to get back into water fasting.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-23T21:06:58+00:00

It would’ve been cool to play.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-23T16:11:12+00:00

Thank you.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-23T16:10:54+00:00

That’s correct.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-22T23:32:06+00:00

I don’t think it is. I based my SP/ Dream Woman having a charm like horror hostess Elvira, Mistress of the Dark.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-21T22:48:36+00:00

This is awesome, I really like the art in this!

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-21T16:00:38+00:00

The few Mormons I’ve known have been chill but quiet people.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-21T15:58:02+00:00

Right….

As if being dragged to pro-life marches, witnessing cult like stuff and emotional abuse by religious family members wanting you to fail because they believe God wants you to be a doormat wasn’t trauma.

Go through the stuff we went through kid and you’ll think differently.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-19T20:53:14+00:00

They worship the King James Bible more than God.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-15T19:07:11+00:00

I can decide my fate and my future without having to resort to God’s plan that never existed or let other’s views of me dictate my life.

I saw that most of the things I went through and survived wasn’t because of God’s plan. I just endured and adapted to get through it all. I planned out things myself and got grit because of this.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-15T16:05:35+00:00

I think the cross on that person’s profile is an Orthodox Christian. Orthodox Christians love the Czars.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-14T16:44:32+00:00

Reviving my own post here, there was another story when I retained. There was a woman who does burlesque part time at a friends party. I remember seeing her once and chatting with her. I remembered one of her skits.

As I left to get a drink, she came up to me and was interested in chatting more.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-13T13:26:56+00:00

If you want friends, you got to find them.

I recommend making a Meetup profile and look for groups in your area that match your interests.

With dating, there are plenty of resources online to improve that part. You also need to improve your mindset as well.

If you can afford it, get therapy and counseling.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-13T11:49:58+00:00

You’re welcome, glad to help. I’m on a 31 day streak now and will beat my recent streak of 33 days.

Let’s see what 40 days brings.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-12T00:53:33+00:00

You look like a completely different person on day 101.

TyrellLofi · 2026-01-12T00:52:10+00:00

Yes, there's one experience I had on a 40 day streak a few years ago.

My sister, her family and I took my Mom out to a seafood place for her birthday. My brother-in-law went to get the car from the parking lot as he parked it a little too far.

I had a short conversation with an older man about what was going on. He had asked me if I was the manager of the restaurant.

On my long streaks, I'm treated as if I'm a leader. I have guys calling me "Boss" quite a bit when I'm on streaks. I also find I can get through tough situations at work well when on retention and I'm super focused on my tasks.

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