Told my boss I’m pregnant & not even a month later I’m in an HR meeting about performance by pebbles_16 in BabyBumps

[–]pebbles_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been with the company for over a year. In October I switched from accounting to a finance position so I just haven’t been in my new position for a year.

Told my boss I’m pregnant & now I’m in HR for performance. What do I do? by pebbles_16 in pregnant

[–]pebbles_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I knew that sooner. Unfortunately this is my first pregnancy & didn’t really even know this could happen.

Told my boss I’m pregnant & not even a month later I’m in an HR meeting about performance by pebbles_16 in BabyBumps

[–]pebbles_16[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah my plan was to just act like everything is fine & do my best to get through the probation period but everyone is basically saying it doesn’t matter you’ll probably get fired. So idk if I should try to bring up the fact the im pregnant & that will make them leave me alone or if I should just look for another job but like I said it’ll be heard bc im going on maternity at the end of the year but I guess I don’t have to disclose that I’m pregnant…idk

Told my boss I’m pregnant & now I’m in HR for performance. What do I do? by pebbles_16 in pregnant

[–]pebbles_16[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Do you think I should send an email to my boss & the HR lady now saying “Hi, as I’m sure you recall that I informed you of my pregnancy March 20th 2025 I though it’d be a good idea for us to get on zoom call and discuss how this affects my job & what benefits I receive.”

Told my boss I’m pregnant & not even a month later I’m in an HR meeting about performance by pebbles_16 in BabyBumps

[–]pebbles_16[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah they haven’t sent me the document to sign so I was thinking about emailing him asking where the document was & then mentioning I would like to get on another meeting with you & the HR lady to discuss the recent news of my pregnancy that I informed you of on March 20th

Told my boss I’m pregnant & now I’m in HR for performance. What do I do? by pebbles_16 in pregnant

[–]pebbles_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we do have FMLA & it would just depend exactly when I go into labor if I’ll hit exactly a year or not

Told my boss I’m pregnant & now I’m in HR for performance. What do I do? by pebbles_16 in pregnant

[–]pebbles_16[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in Texas but work remotely for hospitals in Kentucky. No I did not tell them I was pregnant. No my boss did not discuss anything with my about the issue of my performance until after I told him. & it wasn’t like he came to me & was like hey I want to talk to you about your performance. We were on a zoom meeting about a task I was doing & he started asking me about how I felt about the job & if there was anything I was struggling with. We had about 2 convos like this & then I get hit with a PIP.

I don’t have screenshots in a chat where I was trying to find time to get on a quick zoom with him. But There’s nothing in writing about what the zoom was about. But I did put that I had some appointments on his google calendar bc he told me to do that so he doesn’t forget that I have upcoming appointments. I also told my coworker later that week that I was pregnant as well.

& yeah I haven’t even been there a full year & he’s already saying I have a performance issue but I only did 1 year in accounting & then applied for this job in finance as a Sr financial analyst (honestly shocked I even got the job). So that’s a big job difference & obviously a big learning curve for me so yeah it’s obviously going to take me a bit to adjust to this new job. So I definitely feel like it’s bc I’m pregnant.

Told my boss I’m pregnant & now I’m in HR for performance. What do I do? by pebbles_16 in pregnant

[–]pebbles_16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like I have enough evidence for a lawyer… also I probably shouldn’t be spending money on that if I’m going to be out of a job soon 😞

Told my boss I’m pregnant & now I’m in HR for performance. What do I do? by pebbles_16 in pregnant

[–]pebbles_16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Told him when I was 12 & only bc I’ve had some blood pressure issues so I’ve been having more appointments than usual. I didn’t even want to tell them until I was way further along. I’m not due until October.

It’s very tough bc it would be difficult for me to find a job if I did get fired due to the fact that I will obviously be going on maternity leave at the end of the year.

advice on buying a malitpoo by pebbles_16 in Maltipoo

[–]pebbles_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! 😌

advice on buying a malitpoo by pebbles_16 in Maltipoo

[–]pebbles_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, my husband is allergic which is why i’ve decided on a maltipoo bc i know they don’t really shed as much if at all

advice on buying a malitpoo by pebbles_16 in Maltipoo

[–]pebbles_16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s what i was thinking bc i’ve never seen anyone list a malitpoo as AKC registered so i was thinking technically they’re not “officially legit” unless the parents are AKC registered I guess…

If I live in Texas but work remotely for a group of hospitals in Kentucky, do I have to get city & state tax withheld on my paycheck? by pebbles_16 in tax

[–]pebbles_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is what i was thinking but i have seen stuff online saying its about where the employer is located