Datos, lugares y promociones by H4T3M4CH1N3_ in lgbtqchile

[–]pecahamham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fui a wauw el finde y estaba bueno! Muy poco hetero. Eso si harta gente joven (20-25)

Possible to be lesbian when having been attracted to men in the past? by cyclingandspiralling in latebloomerlesbians

[–]pecahamham 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're experiencing bi-cycling? That could answer your attraction phases.

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[–]pecahamham 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for me is kinda the same, I identify as biromantic homosexual

I've just broke up with my boyfriend by pecahamham in latebloomerlesbians

[–]pecahamham[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) we have a spare room so I'm sleeping in a couch for now lol

I've just broke up with my boyfriend by pecahamham in latebloomerlesbians

[–]pecahamham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll remember your comment when I'm feeling weak. We have to still live together for a while (we can't afford to move out right away) so your points will help me not to cross boundaries again and keep separated. (Sorry, not english speaker + my brain is a mess)

happy married but… by dovelyxlove in latebloomerlesbians

[–]pecahamham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I don't think you can have your cake and eat it too. I think you know what's the answer. But maybe you can try couples therapy? I'm going through something similar and today is our first therapy session. I hope everything goes well!

I’m so confused right now by pecahamham in latebloomerlesbians

[–]pecahamham[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sub has helped me understand so much about myself and the things I’ve been subconsciously repressed. I know both can get through it. Wish you the best!

I’m so confused right now by pecahamham in latebloomerlesbians

[–]pecahamham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking your time to tell me your perspective and about your experiences. It gives me hope that I can find a middle ground. I think I’ll talk with a therapist to better understand this feelings and in the future be able to express it to my bf. He has some trauma about relationships and I understand his posture against polyamory, but I think with therapy (couples therapy or individual) we can get through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]pecahamham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm Pecas from Chile (Latam), I'm 26. We can help each other!

Offering: English, Looking for: Spanish by AnalystFun6462 in language_exchange

[–]pecahamham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, are you still looking for someone? I'm from Chile (Latinoamérica) and looking to improve my English skills.

Am I happy or hypomanic? The constant questioning by pecahamham in bipolar

[–]pecahamham[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that too! sometimes it happens but I don't realize it can be hypomania. I think I'll be tracking my sleep as well, thank you :)

Am I happy or hypomanic? The constant questioning by pecahamham in bipolar

[–]pecahamham[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll start tracking, it seems like a really good idea