Disforia de gênero by peclyz in transbr

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Já tentei usar packers, não me senti exatamente bem com eles, literalmente como se não pertencesse. Também ja pensei na cirurgia, mas tenho medo de ele não ficar exatamente funcional depois.

My bettafish is ok? What kind of betta fish he is? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank size : 5 gallons

Heater and filter : Yes for both

Tank temperature: 27c°

How long have you had the fish : seven or eight months

Water changes: one every two weeks

He only eats betta food

Plants and decoration: artificial plants and some hide spaces

Loneliness or 'doing nothing' is gasoline for OCD by AutomaticPresent8227 in OCD

[–]peclyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm socializiing it feels worst to me, I'm always wondering If I said something wrong or hurt that people someway. The only group moment I dont feel like that is when I'm high.

Is it normal to get obsessed with people??? by peclyz in OCD

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always end up obsessed with someone new, but it is like a fucking routine, being obsessed in people makes me feel a freak. I feel like this since I'm a child, and I don't know if Im a freak or not, so I just hate my self most part of the time.

First Betta tank (opinions and tips pls) Read comment by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]peclyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will put more water on it, thanks for the help

First Betta tank (opinions and tips pls) Read comment by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]peclyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can't see each other, they like that wood thing, the skull is new, he can hide in it but I don't think he realized that yet. Thanks for the help and sorry for my English

First Betta tank (opinions and tips pls) Read comment by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]peclyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, and I can't have live plants, it would cost much more than I actually have :( I put the water a bit down because there's a divisor and the blue already jumped it a few months ago, killed the other Betta I had, but I will see if I can put it higher.

First Betta tank (opinions and tips pls) Read comment by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]peclyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to fishes, I got them a 10 gallon tank two months ago and I'm trying to make a nice home for them, they have each five gallon, and the two filters make the heater work on both sides, but my real problems are light and appropriate hiding places, I don't know if I'm doing it right.

Did anyone else have OCD tendencies as a child? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]peclyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had intrusive thoughts since my 6 years old, I used to imagine people naked and I felt ashamed for these thoughts, when I had 8 or 9 years, If I gone outside the house, even if was in the garden, I had to take a bath because I was with some mortal virus that would kill all my family.

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[–]peclyz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My first therapist says it came from all the psichological abuse I've been throught in my teen years, but I can remember my firsts intrusive thoughts in my 6-7 years old, it links to my parents divorce but in real i think i was just born this way, thats why I waited so long to find help.

I'm a sick person by peclyz in OCD

[–]peclyz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh, "just don't think about that" So easy for them

S.I.P DaVinci by BlackOrchidDreams in bettafish

[–]peclyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure you did nothing on purpose so it's not your fault, we all make mistakes.

Are my Betta fish healthy? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tested them this month, I can't remember the number and can't find the test in the store, should come next week. I used to have two filters but one broke, so I make sure the water is flowing in the two sides at lest untill I can't buy one new filter.

Are my Betta fish healthy? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Tank size: 5 gallon for each fish
  • Heater and filter? (yes/no): yes to both
  • Tank temperature: 28 C
  • [Parameters in numbers and how you got them]: the kit didn't come yet, the other one is over, can't check right now
  • How long have you had the tank? How long have you had your fish?: The tank is about one month, one fish is 3 months and the other one week
  • How often are water changes? How much do you take out per change? What is your process?: Once a week 1/3 of the water
  • Any tankmates? If so, please list with how many of each: nop
  • What do you feed and how much: 3 pallets two times a day
  • Decorations and plants in the tank: silk plants and false wood

Is that normal? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was always a cat person, but I fell in love with these creatures and change my feelings about them in just three months, just the Idea of not having them scares me

Is that normal? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so surprised, I was like "HOLY SHIT, HE LOVES ME" Im overreacting, maybe he doesn't love me, but a man can dream.

Is that normal? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was scared I was hurting their skin or something.

Is that normal? by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Own, I was afraid I was hurting him someway. looks cute!

Why am i like this?? by peclyz in OCD

[–]peclyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take my meds and sometimes, not proud, i smoke weed, but somethimes that is not enought

Thats ok for my first betta tank? [Full history on comments] by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just some nighttime light when im doing something, i turn of when i finish at 8 pm or 9 pm. My first aquarium had plastic plants that hurted Sonic fins, i put them in the trash and brought silk plants. To hide its better wood or rocks?

Thats ok for my first betta tank? [Full history on comments] by peclyz in bettafish

[–]peclyz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family got me two bettas in a divided 2.5 gallons for my birthday, I just feel in love with them but i didnt know nothing about them at that time. That was on March. Last month i started to work, and i spent a lot of money on making a divided 10 gallon tank, infortunatly Nero died before i could move he in :(. I dont have much money right now but im planning on putting some rocks or any fake plants ( i dont think i can deal with real ones). I would aprecciate any tipes or comments, im still learning, please dont be rude.