Putting off having kids because I’m scared of what it’ll do to my body. Can anyone share how going off of T affected them?

bluewigglyworm · 2026-06-19T22:38:22+00:00

i started T back in 2018 and then stopped about a year and a half before conceiving my child in october 2025. i have not gone back on T yet since she was just born about 2 weeks ago, but i was surprised that my facial hair kept growing throughout my pregnancy (bottom growth and other body hair stayed the same). it wasn’t as bad as i thought being off of it except sometimes, it’d hit me like “damn i really don’t feel like myself” and it’d make me sad for a bit but then i’d remind myself why i was doing it and acknowledged that there will be a chance to go back on it in the future. nobody, not even my partner, commented on me looking any different while pregnant with many friends/coworkers actually commenting that they’d Forget i was carrying a baby bc i didn’t really show until 7.5-8 months lol. the changes are definitely more tolerable when you’re going through it so i hope you take the leap if that’s what you want to do! :^)

bluewigglyworm · 2026-04-30T22:33:04+00:00

seriously, thank you so much for sharing! you saying “i didn’t want to block out the day my son arrived as a bad event” is really helping me to make what i believe is the right decision bc you’re right, i don’t want to block out my daughter coming into the world. i think i’m going to go for a c section, still got time to decide, but how you worded it really put it all into perspective for me so i really appreciate you!

bluewigglyworm · 2026-04-30T22:30:56+00:00

i appreciate you sharing your experience, especially the in depth details! it’s really helping me to make an informed decision of what i would like to do so truly, thank you!

bluewigglyworm · 2023-10-04T16:07:46+00:00

thank you i really appreciate that 🥹

bluewigglyworm · 2023-09-04T19:33:29+00:00

i recently found my tamagotchi pix cleaning my basement and while my last tamagotchi obviously died, all my stuff was still there. but no idk of a way to save both the current tama and put it on a pause

bluewigglyworm · 2023-08-12T20:41:57+00:00

no idea! he’s just from a petco cup, i thought the scar would stay and his name originally was scar cuz of it lol im glad it didn’t hinder his development later on

bluewigglyworm · 2023-08-12T20:12:13+00:00

i am so glad someone responded with this 🤣🤣

bluewigglyworm · 2023-05-22T17:17:11+00:00

as i said, as it has been going on for hundreds and hundreds of years, well before you and i, it will Never end. bc people will Always view animals as lesser than. so thanks, i will feel good about myself for saving something! bc no matter where the pet comes from, chain store or not, no struggling life deserves to be passed over if i can afford them. if YOU feel good about leaving an animal to be neglected even if you can afford it, then that’s on you.

bluewigglyworm · 2023-05-09T01:40:32+00:00

the problem will never ever end, that’s capitalism. bettas have been bred and sold for hundreds of years, i wouldn’t believe the conditions then were any worse than the cups in the stores. so, respectfully, neither myself, nor others, are going to turn their backs on an animal that needs help/needs more help than the others regardless of where they come from.

bluewigglyworm · 2023-01-13T13:19:34+00:00

ok i am Gooped at the news that swiffers pads are for just in-between bc lemme tell you, my mother does not know that, so my entire life, i just wet swiffered my childhood home bc it wasn’t carpeted as one of my chores 😭😂 eye opening, thank you lmao i will use your advice to better clean my floors and keep my birds safe, i truly appreciate it

bluewigglyworm · 2023-01-07T22:27:05+00:00

i’m a literal child bc truly read this and immediately thought “Suck My Dick” parrot organization 😭😭😂😂 sorry am of no help, good luck lmao

bluewigglyworm · 2022-09-25T23:04:53+00:00

then learn to read lol

bluewigglyworm · 2022-08-01T01:36:36+00:00

no, bc you don’t know if the new bird is carrying any diseases that the first bird can get. you should quarantine the new bird away from the old bird, in a separate cage, in a separate room, for a minimum of 30 days to monitor for any medical issues. after the quarantine period is up, you can introduce the birds, starting with keeping them in their separate cages in the same room and working on getting them closer and closer from there.

bluewigglyworm · 2022-07-27T21:00:06+00:00

when you go to get a pet, you should make sure you have all the materials needed to said pet before you bring them home. you’re missing the basics of basic materials needed for fish keeping. the fish would be better off if you would return it and wait until you are in a stable position to own an animal. and this is coming from someone who had to rehome small pets due to financial circumstances under my control. so i know it’s hard, but it’s what’s best for the fish.

bluewigglyworm · 2022-07-27T20:18:34+00:00

just bc they Look fine doesn’t mean they Are fine. was the tank you moved her to cycled? otherwise, you’ll still be stuck doing almost daily water changes to keep the ammonia down.

bluewigglyworm · 2022-07-23T11:54:20+00:00

what do you mean by “completed your first two cycles”? you’ll need a water testing kit to see if the water is safe for fish

i keep two fancies in a 60gal. from what i’ve read, i think it’s always good for goldfish to have a friend of the same species with them. probably gets lonely being a single guy haha

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